argue vs. taking it for what it is?

[rpeg]

I had an experience with an MPA last night who did the quick 2 minute massage and then asked me to turn over to start on the happy part of the happy ending...when I brought it up to her that we still had at least 20 minutes to go, she said we were well over the time...At that point, I had two options: argue with her and tell her she's ripping me off(subsequently ruining the moment and making Mr. Happy not so happy anymore) OR just let it slide off my back(pun intended) and try to enjoy the moment, so you atleast get what you originally came for(pun intended again)...I ultimately chose the latter, but really felt ripped off!

My question to you is, what would you do in this situation? Argue with her, getting yourself and her upset, making the ending rather unpleasant? Or just letting it go?

 

[Kent]

If you got a basic then you might have your answer.

 

[ashleyradburn]

Who are you going to complain to? LE... Human Rights... your Mom?

Let is go... right it off to experience... and let the rest of us know where this place is and the attendant involved. Most hobbyists have dealt with this issue at some point in their "career". Isn't this the reason we all joined massageplanet.net?

 

[~Volcom~]

Let It Go .. but don't forget.

 

[203]

Perfect advice. In this situation you are at the mpa's mercy because like you said if you back talk to the girl the session goes down the toilet.
The only thing i'm curious about is which spa this happened.

 

[AK Pride]

I would have argued about the shortchanging, and then got dressed, left the room, and asked the Manager for my door fee back.

 

[Rick Rick]

Expose who she is on massageplanet.net...

That way you will get some satisfaction knowing that she will be losing money because of her shitty service and attitude.

Payback is a bitch.....

 

[shealynn r]

Hi Koolmio!!

If you took more than a basic, then you definitely got ripped off. But if you just got a basic, then unfortunately, 'missphill' may be right. I know you're paying $40 (or whatever) for the DF but you have to realize, some places, the girls get NOTHING from that. I personally would never work for a place that gives $0 commission but unfortunately, more and more places are keeping the whole DF, therefore, the MPA makes nothing if you don't tip her. So, of course, she's gonna treat you like crap 'cuz you just made her lose her turn and she has to massage you for free!!! There really should be some law that MPA are guaranteed at least some part of the DF but unfortunately, bc, of the nature of our business, there's no one to enforce it. But I think the LE people realize that this is happening at a lot of places these days and they hate seeing owners take advantage of the girls bc one time, a LE officer asked me how much I got from the DF and when I told him $5, he just shook his head.

 

[ohyo5o]

What you should do is tell us where you went, this is the best payback. Unless you can at least provide this much info then we're not likely to take much pity on you.

 

[gavilan_rood]

Just think, she made $4 per minute. Hourly, that's $240.00.

I agree with Buck, who is she and where is she so we all can avoid her. trust me, we've all been through one of those 10-15 min sessions.

Just last week, I visited a small place on Eg West and only 1 girl working. I walked in just before 10 pm and I asked her if she was still open seeing it was 10 pm. She invited me in and went ahead with the massage. As I was being traeted, people were still knocking on the door and she rudely left the room twice to answer the door on my time. She did let one guy in and was making him wait in the adjoining room.

At that point I felt the massage being rushed and then "turn over please". That's when I asked for some extra's and she stated you only have 5 minutes. Looking at the wall clock, I told her 15 minutes left if I walked in at 10 PM.

I cancelled the extra's and made sure she stuck around till my session was over.

Never going back to Holistic Health Ctr 952 Eglinton Ave. West. Big blonde Russian....stay away!

 

[Walt]

That is so sad. The girl does all the work and gets absolutely NOTHING?!. So she actually massages for Free. Hmmm, perhaps now I know why these girls can have an attitude every once in awhile. And to boot, sometimes as stated in another post, the ones who are paying for more, Dine and Dash. Just Brutal.

So many girls out there just don't know that they deserve so much better. I mean, who works for free?? It is indeed sad when the establishement (for lack of a better word) where these poor girls work, feel that they deserve more if not all of their hard earned money.

PTG

 

[cheesecake]

On three occasions I had 'bad" experiences like that and each time I either e-mailed or called later and got a freebie. It pays to complain to the right folks guys!!

 

[RedNinja]

hmm ... i suppose, personally, i would let it go ... i notice in this business, its a hit or miss ... i really dont think it's worth the aggravation ... chalk it up as a learning experience ...

and if you want to be a sport about it, do tell the massageplanet.netsies here ...

but ... if you really got ripped off ... you paid your door fee, then paid for some extra (let say 40 and up) but got squat, i would rather go to the manager and politely explain my complain (that i felt i got ripped off and was not very satisfied with the service and would tell others)

then its up to the manager how they want to handle it ... they give you some refund, great, if they dont, well ... they will be losing a lot of business (if you do report it here)

 

[Andrei S]

i have the impression that the door fee all go to the owner ... and that the girl are making their money on the extra ... that's why i would consider giving 20 for even a basic ...

of course, it would be great if at the end of the day, percentage of the door fee would go to all the girls working there ... but i suppose it all varies on the owners ...

but also - the girls need to know that it is a service they are providing ... and as such, attitude and personality goes a long long way ... reading some reviews here, i think some girls still dont get it

 

[Kuro Yuki]

But, that's not always the case. I have paid for a nude for 30mins and she dove for MR HAPPY at the 15 min mark. I wish I would have said something then. I just left never to return.

Sometimes, there's nothing you can do. Especially when it's late at night and she's the only one working...

 

[Patience]

Do you go out to dinner,order a steak and then have the waiter tell you its 20 extra to cook it?
Just a thought.

 

[Alicia M.]

Arguing wont do anything for you...just take it for what it is and post a review

 

[metime]

i'll talk to her. i'm sure she'll give u her money back.

j

 

[eeknogeek]

I would just post it here on the board. Just to let everybody know. Chances are she might have done that before.

 

[MitchellHill]

Too bad (your post title). Guess I'm wrong that most Asian fans are more respectful.