Asking MPA Out

[cringe dragon]

Would you ask out an MPA or is that asking for trouble? Just curious if anyone has done this before and what the outcome was?

 

[Carissima]

Girls seem to have a rule: if you're paying to fuck them, you'll never go out with them. It's kind of a Game thing (www.mysterymethod.com).

That being said, it's a big wide world out there, and exceptions appear to happen.

Hey, if a guy says on massageplanet.net that he fucked a top MPA, I believe him - wouldn't you?

 

[DolphinFan02]

Well it can't hurt to ask. But...........................................

Just remember these words from a MPA..... "we are here for the money not to find a bf"

In other words the odds are stacked against you since you are her client.

I think you have to ask yourself what you are looking for and does it jive with hobbying and is it compatible with a MPA.

You have to consider what she does, how much she makes, the life she's used to.

Of course there's been no mention of your half of the equation.... this all hinges on if she feels any chemistry.

Even if there is chemistry remember she's got her defenses up. To succeed in this biz these women have to protect themselves which can sometimes make them inaccessible but years of this can also make some very self centred.

Don't listen too much to what a MPA says a big part of her job is making you comfortable so not everything is the truth.

Yeah I was enthralled by her beauty and kindness but I could never provide a $10 K a month budget for her nor would I ever crack her top 10 list of things important to her.

I purposely wrote a kind of negative post to get you to think about things.

Of course it goes without saying that these are all gross generalizations.

 

[Mamta]

Do not listen to FC... he has way too much negativity on the subject (and I believe he went 0 for 4 in his attempts). I recommend you consult with the masters on this subject: New Years Eggy and that dude who used to regularly luncheon with uber goddess Ivana.

 

[Jessykabeth]

LOL guess you didn't read till the end of the post..... understandable as I tend to ramble.

All I'm trying to point out is that don't get blinded by their looks and sexy behaviour in the room. There's a lot more to consider.

I do like the way NYE rolls..... rose petals and charcoal drawings.

JC was just delusional.

FC (attempts: 0/4)

 

[Jeff Garcia]

Wow... this has never been discussed before!

Anything is possible. You might get abducted by aliens (not , but actual aliens) or your car might be hit by a meteor while driving home on the 401 or the object of your affection might agree to actually go on a date with you.

But for my money, I'll bet on the meteor and the alien abduction before your MPA dates you for free. Just your friendly neighborhood reality check.

 

[im_foxygirl]

Keep in mind they are being paid to be friendly. That being said if they go out of their way to be more friendly than required and the chemistry is "right", ask them out. Some of these woman are simply looking for a relationship.

 

[|Chris]

Dude... if that is all it takes... there are about 20 MPAs who shoulda been cookin' my eggs and doing my laundry! I do not think I could date anyone in the biz ("how did the handjobs go today, honey?"). I would like Monique@plats to make me some pierogies though!

 

[einreb]

Occassionally i go out with my regular MPA who i see since last over 3 yrs.
for Lunches or Dinners at the end of her shift, no harm at all, no sex, just a good companionship and evening togather with no strings attached.
but its a very YMMV u really have to work very hard to get a date from an MPA who is beautiful and well known too Goodluck in your adventure in dateing your MPA for Drinks, Lunch or Dinner, try your luck this weekend being a ThanksGiving so she may consider joining you.

 

[Brooks]

Don't do it man.
Keep your hobbying world separate. Now I won't lie and say that I've never made a connection with my MPA, but you have to remember that you're paying them to service you and well some girls are just nice people and will come off that way in the session.

However, if you ask her out for a coffee or something sometime and things develop well...good for you.

You could be like Richard Gere in 1990s runaway hit film 'Pretty Woman' or like Olympic Gold Medalist Kurt Angle, who met his wife in a strip club she worked at.
I'm not mocking or anything, but you could be the next one in line, because I don't think I've ever heard of a story of a client ending up with a MPA.

So, all the best to you in whatever decsion you make.

 

[bayou_babe1111]

I have seen a few MPAs socially over the years and honestly don't feel any harm has been done. Often after a session for a drink, or a bite do eat... It seems they too are just looking for a bit of companionship and maybe a few laughs. Agreed, most of them want to keep it strictly business but when I get the chance to go hot with a hot lady, I don't ever say no.

Cheers,

Jayman

 

[Lynette]

What do you have to loss? There are pros and cons as everyone has pointed out and only one way to see if you like it.

I have done it and would do it again.

 

[lalCauracig]

One word: Stupid. We have all felt a 'special connection' with an mpa, even felt like they felt the same and the truth is it will never work out. I dated an mpa 4years ago and I could never look past what she used to do and she couldn't look past that I used to pay for a hj. It lasted a year, didn't end badly- but made me realize that no matter how great the person is, the situation is shit. Before that I asked an mpa out, thought she was into it. Soon realized she was looking for a sugar daddy, not a bf. Bottom line is that we are paying mpas for their company and I have accepted that chances are they think we are losers or have significant others at home. Truth is I could care less about either of those points- business is business.

 

[Pearl]

I've had better luck with SP's.

 

[Pompal 09.]

Same here, Hawkeye. I've made lasting friendships with MPAs in several cities, and its great to have a old friend to connect with when you're visiting an otherwise unfriendly city. We usually meet for dinner and retire to my hotel for the night. No obligations or expectations, but things usually work out to a very nice GFE.

 

[omgxxxshoes]

Hey guys, thanks for all the opinions and stuff though I wansnt asking this about myself, I was just a bit curious. I dont have a regular MPA that I visit and I havent been in like 6 months. Though maybe I should pay a visit and try someone new in the coming weeks.
Any suggestions for a good MPA?

 

[Untitled Sabrina Project]

If you just want free sex...forget it...ask her out...it is possible to have a relationship with an MPA....it is also possible to have a genuinely loving and caring relationship with one you met at an MP and later dated and lived with/married after she left the profession....

 

[Pompal 09.]

If you want sex or a relationship why restrict it to MPAs or even choose a MPA in the first place?

If you meet her as a client your odds are low and due to her job your odds are even lower.

If you want either of those two things just look for a woman.

If you have to restrict your search to just MPAs there's a bigger problem that you should worry about.

 

[MrsBossy]

I recently posted this finding. I'll post it again here as it is hilarious and some apply to the thread question
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[Marthinus]

If you have the nerve to do it you got nothing to lose. If you don't ask you will never kniw.

If you give it a shot you can look back with no regrets.

Be realistic if she/he says no. Odds are against her/him saying yes. Don't push it or you could end up with a real problem. Don't expect it go anywhere.

I used to see a sc dancer (back in the day) but it was more trouble then it was worth. Even though it went no where, it still was a interesting experience and I have no what if questions going around in my head.