Curiosity for SRM

[JBallaa]

I keep hearing the phrase.."mileage was within the limits of a high class massage parlor." Now I will be careful in how I word this question so here goes. If I was to go to SRM and I was looking for something that pushes the envelope of the above phrase, who would be a possible suggestion keeping in mind of course that ymmv as always. Any suggestions massageplanet.netites? I hope I was vague enough for this question not be shunned upon yet specific enough to be understood.

player coach

 

[cody g]

Why don't you just see an SP and be done with it?

That will save you from disappointment and wasted money.

DON'T believe the rumors RE: the high end spas.

ALL the top spas like SRM, HFH, Allure, Platinum wouldn't (and don't) tolerate their girls from doing the activities UR hoping for. I've met a couple of the owners and they've told me that point blank.

It would jeopardize their licenses and businesses, not to mention criminal charges.

Also, the top MPA's know how to tease you without risking either their health or yours

 

[Tyko]

All within massage parlour limits means there won't be BJ or FS.

 

[curouis]

thanx guys for the responses. This may sound a bit convoluted but going to a sp represents FS. It is a given. There is no will she or wont she. Yes, I have taken that route. But, it is always exciting to "push the envelope" at massage parlors without necessarily engaging in FS. I guess its the excitement of trying to get the girls to do a little more that is alluring. Cmon guys, we all know we try, whether it be directly or indirectly. What Im trying to say is im willing to spend some money for the off chance that she will do a little more. Why it excites I have no idea but we all have our thing

player coach

 

[Fontofall]

If the excitement is in pushing boundaries then why ask us? Because you will get advice on someone who is known to have wider boundaries (so you're not actually pushing boundaries)?

Sounds like you just want a high mileage girl.

But that's neither here nor there. I don't think many will cough up the info you're looking for.

 

[~ Dan ~]

It's like going into a bar/club and pickup someone for the night,...it's a challenge trying to get an MPA to do other things.

 

[mckenziecalhoun]

I dont think anybody is going to give the suggestions into this , you have to keep trying and it depends on how u made the links.

 

[J J]

You've got THAT right brother.

Honestly player coach, I can't imagine too many guys are gonna mention names on a public board.

Not so you can turn around and start pushing boundaries.

I'm gonna be polite & respectful but tell you straight.

Most MPA's like to build trust with clients they try different (but safe!) things with. Whether or not you've received PM's or heard names here is totally irrelevent.

It's HER body and she decides what the boundaries are. Every MPA will tell you they hate pushy and disrepectful clients.

Your ONLY option is to find an MPA you like, build trust and THEN you can ask to try different (safe!) things.

Then when she says yes to Russian, Italian or lets you snuggle up close you know it's being offered out of affection and sincerity.

Just a thought

 

[catmuffinmy]

Do you honestly think you've gotten something special? If she does something for you she probably does it with other guys too. Maybe not every guy but don't fool yourself into thinking you're the only one.

The idea of a challenge is a myth. Played out in your head. Don't think that it was your looks or charming way that got you the extra mileage.

Of couse I could be wrong you could have the body of Adonis, the tongue of Cyrano D, and the face of an angel. But it could also be the wallet of Donald.

 

[Pompal 09.]

Well how then do they decide? There must be some criteria they go by to decide who to offer "special services" to. And you think the girl at the bar or club is some kind of purity princess who only offers herself to you? Please, if anything they're even more nasty and diseased than MPAs.

 

[Susiepolls2008]

First, I thought the initial question was an honest one and I find the answers surprising (read: dismaying).

Sure - no one is going to mention names - but surely it's no secret that you can get out there more than just a 10 minute hand job!

I'm not going to mention names either, but not because of some pretend code of honour here. The fact is, if I really liked a particular girl and got something extra from her, the last thing I'd do is advertise it. Some girls do "extras". Some do it for anyone that asks. Some do it only for a select few.

More to the point, it would come off as bragging and/or lying.

On the other side of the coin, I've had less than pleasing experiences too and I'm not about to name names either - because ultimately, even if I'm entirely accurate, I might be impacting the means of income of some person who clearly doesn't have a lot of alternatives open to her, and in spite of the fact that I had a bad experience, I'm not into revenge.

Frankcastle asked, "What's special about you?" Well, there's lots special about me, but really the question is beside the point. Sex is 50% physical and 50% psychological. All of us could save the bucks and masturbate. But we get turned on by the psychological too. So I perfectly understand the desire to get more out of a girl than a quick hand job. Some of those extras come with risks, some don't. In some cases you can prepare for those risks (by bringing a condom, for instance).

But I understand completely the wanting of more - it's only natural! You've got a hot naked girl there - who wouldn't want to stick your tongue down their throat?

Ultimately, my advice is - it's a numbers game - and be prepared to spend money. The more girls you visit, the more likely you'll find one willing to do what you want. (And don't be afraid to generalize this trait in her, to asess the risks.) Your success rate will depend on your looks, your style (don't be arrogant, don't be too intense, compliment them, make them smile, dress well, etc), and your wallet.

 

[villaltaroger]

Huh. One of the best thought-out posts I've seen in years.

Welcome to the board.

 

[Confidence]

I don't know if I'm much use to the board, though the board has been of some use to me.

Self interest tells me to shut up about the good experiences and respect tells me to shut up about the bad experiences.

So frankly, I've had difficulties in finding a role here that I can play. I'm left with generalities.....

 

[lonely_in_weidman]

TQM,

You can certainly write reviews both positive and negative. On the positive side you can write about it but leave out certain details.

As for negative reviews it's probably best to wait a day or two after the fact so that you aren't writing out of anger and so you can be more objective.... e.g. over charged, rushed, mechanical, unattractive, restrictive, cold, mean whatever.

 

[happybunny101]

U have given a very clear answer to the gentleman's thread of crossing boundries with MPA's. It is true that once you build respect, trust, & dignity with your regular MPA, then u can achieve a little more mileage, & that also takes nearly 3~4 turns off repitation, i am seeing a well-known MPA since last over 3 yrs on regular basis, which has formed trust, & mutual understanding so i fully enjoy my date with her than anyone else.

 

[Pompal 09.]

Think people are missing the point here. I'm suggesting that with most of the highly regarded MPAs they are regarded as such for their consistancy.

How does the MPA decide who to give special services to? Quite easily..... she asks herself one simple question.... could she tolerate seeing you again or on a regular basis. MPA's success is driven primarily by regulars/return visits so she does what she is comfortable with her clients. Sure maybe you'd like to think that she likes you but at the end of the day you didn't get it for free.

All I'm saying is don't flatter yourselves. The motivation is primarily financial reasons. If it were for other reasons then you probably wouldn't be going to MPs for such services.

Anyways, at the end of the day I think it's best not to over analyze things. JUST ENJOY THE FANTASY.

As for bar girls etc.... those are your words not mine. I don't place any moral judgements on the state of affairs in MPs or bars. In fact can we not compare the two since one invovles an exchange of cash which drives the action while the other can be for a number of reasons.

 

[Funktasticka]

That's great and practical advice TQM.

You're obviously an experienced client and "three dimensional" thinker but unfortunately alot of guys on the board aren't.

They take whatever they read literally and really DON'T understand the term YMMV and more importantly WHY that exists. You've spelled it out explicitly but some guys assume they should get what they want from the girl they've paid for.

As for your role on massageplanet.net, only you can decide that, but intelligent opinions are always welcome, not the same questions over and over again

 

[john313181]

I agree I think YMMV is often overlooked.

 

[iLoveMusic!!]

Just to be clear, if I had a good thing going with a girl, the last thing I'd do would be to advertise her to other men - I'd prefer her to be as least busy as possible. It's pretty clear if she's good, the word gets out quick enough.

And if I had a bad experience - and I have - the reason I'm not going to name names isn't because I'm angry - but because that girl, however wrong she was, earns her living this way, and unless there was some public safety hazard, I'm not going to mess with it.

I've seen just about all there is to see in the business - good and bad. I've had "extras". I've had bad experiences with girls considered very highly here. And unless I name names (or massage parlours), I don't see value in writing inspecific revues. Just my hang up, I guess.

 

[8 In the corner]

So helping a guy save some money is not part of your interest yet the board helps you. Look you're entitled to do what you want there are plenty of lurkers and there always will be. But maybe the MPA is she rushes the session or is mechanical or whatever should know about it so that she can improve her sessions. That helps her business in the long run as she will get more repeats. Why protect someone who does their job badly? I take feed back about my work and try to adjust so why shouldn't others do that with their jobs?

And it seems strange that you want to help bad MPAs but don't want to reward the good ones with more business isn't that a bit weird?

Sorry I got uppity.... guess I like lurkers out of sight out of mind.