Discussion: Are the Limits at MP's Not Clear Already?

[Chas]

I was just reading the thread on Jessica @ HFH as something struck me funny.

http://209.29.131.76/vbulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=51841

In that thread the poster (who I'll assume did nothing wrong) noted that the lady on the phone (I assume Kayla) stated that FS was not available at that spa.

Here's what struck me funny about that statement: I've been a regular at B&S for some time. I had my first session with Violet there not too long ago. Small chit-chat, including mentioning that I was a regular, and she mentioned that she likes it there because it was clean and nice and they don't offer those services either.

None of that was news to me and I don't go to HFH or B&S looking for FS because I know it is not available there but I was surprised that she had to come out and state that. A regular would know that already - correct?

Question/Discussion:

Are the limits of MP's Not Clear Already? Has it come to the point that the MP's/attendats are having to come out state that FS is not available at certain spas when it should be a well known fact given the popularity of this board?

I've seen so many threads and PM's over the last several months, usually by Newbies, asking if FS was available at the more popular high end spas. The senior members usually tell them to go to a SP instead. It just strikes me funny that the limits aren't already clear and disclaimers are having to be issued.

What are your thoughts?

 

[B Vijay Chandran]

Wishful thinking.

 

[BritneyHill]

I've talked about MP's with friends that don't know I frequent them.

Some assume sex is the norm, while others no the "rub & tug" term.

 

[dani girl]

When I feel trapped by an attendant I don't really want to see, I will ask for full service in order to get out of there.

it is easier than saying "I am not attracted to you can, I see someone else?"

 

[Akhmet]

Very good!

 

[Hayden K.]

Strikes me as funny too. But then, maybe ,when you are new it's confusing. Posted reviews can often say or imply many things that can be taken alot of ways. And, it can be difficult or time consuming to find the information you need using the search function. However, sometimes the newbie posters asking about FS appear to be more seasoned than they let on to be and I find their questioning suspect. Seems like more often than not you have to give them the benefit of the doubt. Some are probably sincere and some are probably by odd-balls.

 

[Noneofyour]

Eggy !

Gotta love it when people think that the whole worlds standards are based on what is valuable to them as an individual.

 

[this kitty needs a hug]

Vagueness in reviews tends to help the problem of blurred opinions of what mp's offer; however, discretion is expected and appreciated by mp's and mpa's when posting a review.
The pm function is supposed to relieve some of the tension from this problem by allowing the specifics of a session to be related but even this causes problems(for me this comes from being asked via pm about illegal practices concerning mpa's i have reviewed, in some cases they were quite offensive and i didnt even bother to respond).
Another issue as mentioned by Hornet is the fact that girls know what other girls are doing at spas and that is evident by mpa's feeling it necessary to put out the disclaimer about fs.
My final point is that fs is provided at some mp's and by certain mpa's from mp's that are usually not associated with fs and these practices will continue to keep the line blurred concerning fs at mp's.

 

[BFF]

Don't know Violet and can't comment on what
might have led her to say what she told you about B&S.
But I will venture to guess that even in well established
MPs it is not unusual for MPAs to get asked or even pressed for illegal or "unacceptable" services. Most seasoned
MPAs knows how to brush off such requests gracefully.
The not-so-experienced ones could be more prone to
tell their first-time clients what they don't want to do
beforehand.

I don't like to discuss with my MPAs details of
the kind of requests they have to watch out of. But some
of them would reveal to me one unpleasant
aspect of their job. A while
ago during a session with Tasha@B&S I realized
that my hand was roaming on her in a somewhat
ungentlemanly manner. I then tried to behave myself and
apologized. After giving me the assurance
that she wasn't offended she told me "...if you see
what other clients tried to do to me you will get heart
attacks...". I also had sessions with MPAs
who told me having to turn down requests from BJ
to sucking their clients' toes.

 

[Pompal 09.]

You have to understand that in other areas (like Vancouver), MPs do offer FS, so for some guys, it may be expected until they find out the local rules.

 

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[Cord]

How can this be shareable without killing the goose (you know, the one laying the golden eggs)? If I did know something about an MP's or MPA's illegal practices, why would I jeopardize their license or attract LE attention, by posting it on this very public forum?

 

[ALEXTHEG8]

I don't buy it. Prostitution is illegal in Canada. If it wasn'there'd be places like they have in Nevada or Australia here. So, if it's illegal and operating a business offering those services is illegal then why would one assume that it is offered at MP's.

I'm not naive, I understand it can happen but it's the very rare exception not the rule in my experiences at these more popular higher end spas.

Even the post by Kennedy http://209.29.131.76/vbulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=51700 illustrated the misconceptions around MP's and services they offer.

 

[Alec]

I merely used her as an example to illustrate a point. B&S is one of those spas that don't offer those services just like other higher end spas. I don't blame her for that statement as that is what she likes about the spas that generates a comfort level. The session with her was still great and I'd go back to see her again.

There's just been other instances over the last several months that seem to indicate that MP's and MPA's are having to provide disclaimers. Maybe it was those LE raid threads that brought all the horny guys out of the shadows looking for something that isn't offered.

I don't know...maybe I'm too seasoned now and expect everyone to have the same level of knowledge as I do.