do i catch my 2nd husband out using a spare mobile fone for sex chats again

[CURL & DYE]

for the 5th time? my 1st huband was a cheat so i got rid. Iv been married to my 2nd husband 8years and in that 8years iv found a second mobile on 5 occasions and theyve all been to chat sex talk to strange women iv even sent him the texts myself from a friends phone and he texted back when i confronted him he was so sorry and really upset at what a fool he had been and promised it wouldnt happen again. That was last August. he works away from home and i go to his works digs for 3 days so it isnt such a long week for him. however when i was there yesterday i found a local paper and it was folded in half at the page where you contact women for fun and friendship. so im starting to think is he up to his old tricks to i plant a red herring again. help please.
i did tell him last year that if it happens again then that would be it the marrage would be over. and i do mean it it would i cant forgive a 6th time. so now iv got to put him to the test but i think its very strange that the papers folded in half on that page so thats got to be the last page he was looking at.

 

[Erin]

Mark this as "2nd husband was a cheat so i got rid"

 

[Tara]

Your married, you should just ask him if hes been doing it.

If yes, then you should be asking why hes doing it not just deciding to leave before knowing the route cause (2 cheating partners could be some thing to do with you?)

if No, then you need to start working on your Trust issues.

 

[Jacob Gilbert]

The 3rd time is always the Lucky Charm

 

[kenC]

i would not be able to cope with this,

what do you want?

go out and get it, sounds like he has had 4 chances too many,

have ye considered Marriage therapy