Jenn, if you are wondering whether to take it out or not, just do a little research to the con's of leaving it in. They chip the teeth, the tongue is far more prone to infection and in time, they are just a bad idea all ways round. Having said that, I think the blow jobs with a stud are likely better ( I voted for wanting to have one one day but haven't yet ) but hey....you likely like sex without a condom a lot more than with it, but for health reasons, no glove, no love. Is having a stud or not making the same decision in the end?? A dental hyginest once told me that they were taught that tongue piercings shatter the enamel off the teeth and in the end, you end up with lots of problems like root canal and teeth having to be capped or removed. I take it if you are thinking of removing it, you are wondering about the loss of business?? I would wager you have the talents that would make any man eager to enjoy no matter what.....