Does getting a man off make you feel powerful?

[Freeeeezing !]

Here's a question for you girls. I've heard that getting a man off either orally or manually gives a woman a feeling of power because this big strong man is nothing but putty in her "hands"! Do you find this to be the case?

 

[crc]

I don't know about other girls, but, sorry to disappoint you, it's not for me. What I found more empowering was stripping and dancing. That to me, is a total display of overwhelming female sexuality and a form of an enticing game between the client and me. Loads of fun, indeed!

No offense, but HJ or oral is more physiological for me. I am at the stage where sexual behaiour has to be more mysterious and sensual than purely mechanical. I need to feel with my partner that we are exploring the universe or going on a sensual journey while making love. Erotic dancing is just a prelude to the kingdom of unearthly pleasures.

To illustrate why I feel the way I do, here's a story.

One time, I massaged a male stripper. I was wondering why such a good looking man came for a session. Nevertheless, he was simply tired with all that available women out there, throwing themselves at him. I guess he just wanted a non-mechanical, no release, sensual massage. Or simply somebody to talk to, I don't know. So, that's what he got. I had an amazing time with him (still smiling glowingly)! There was a strong chemistry between us, so we cuddled and caressed each other for the whole hour. And I wasn't fully naked at all. For both of us, being in the adult entertainment business, we were tired with the obvious, naked bodies and simplistic sexuality. We just needed more...

Well, to some writers out there, there's too much of primordial Aphrodite character in me right now I think...

...but, of course, some girls might have a different take-on on this and yes, Foxhound, I see your point why women could feel that way.

 

[Josh H]

That I was one of the only ones... I see a couple of male "Dancers" as well as an ex male "SP" ocasionally... For the most part it is a lot like what you posted... Mind you I have ended up being a culture guide to the one ever since the first visit... We go to places like the ROM together, as well as other like places. It is truely an interesting experiance.

 

[stars.stripes.soccer.]

Not to take away from the interesting situations that both ladies have shared with us - which is exactly why I was delving in this section . . .

but I always had a sort of "Far Side" view of women giving me a release on the massage table - even more so when my girl at home is giving me a helping hand;
rather than a sense of power, it seems that the women think as we guys do when we rub a dog's tummy in just the right spot until his back leg starts shaking.
One thinks, "Hey I know how to get him going, check how I made him spaz out this time!"