does it seem desperate to facebook chat a guy you only know a little?

[brovi]

i like this guy but i dont really know him and do not have to much opportunity to talk to him in person so would it be weird to just message or chat him on facebook?
advice please?

 

[beanie baby]

Just talk to him like you would talk to anyone else, i do it all the time, completely normal,, just don't be creepy and in his face with questions. )

 

[New Day]

No, Do it. When you talk to him just keep things interesting and find some way to give him your number and start texting

 

[Taylor099]

Perhaps, but then if he's like me, I'd be flattered.

 

[Chris]

Haha, gotta love those nerves of getting to know some one.. Well it's really up to you.. If you really want to get to know the guy, then go ahead and message him. Just try your best to be casual about it. It's pretty key not to be messaging constantly, especially if you're trying to avoid seeming desperate. Best of luck and wishes!

Chris

 

[Sammie]

sure go ahead and talk to him what is the worst it could do? besides if you talk once on facebook and its a good conversation then chances are you'll both talk more in person

 

[?Falling For Him ?]

Get to know him more. Just say "Hey" if he starts chatting with you, bring up conversations like sports. Guys can relate to that. If he doesn't reply, no biggie. Just don't keep chatting him if he doesn't reply back or he'll think you're desperate. Good luck girl!

 

[jessicaanne2005]

I don't think so. Facebook is for friends. Just say something casual like Hey how are you? or something along those lines. Just a normal Conversation.

 

[Fabio]

you probably don't like him then... i think you're attracted to him, and think you like him... but nonetheless, as long as you don't make the intro creepy, then no it's not desperate.. who said it was wrong to get to know people??
you'll be fine, good luck

 

[Yer Royal Highness, Guv]

Don't overdo it, but you can use it to try to spark some kind of interest you have in common, and see if he reciprocates with interest later on.

 

[jacob]

depends on how you chat to him but no it wouldn't be weird at all

 

[abbbijo]

That is what Facebook is FOR.