i'm gonna ask the dumb question here and hijack the thread. it was just a newb anyhow haha.
i've enjoyed ass play for years, especially in a massage. only a few times have i had the pokey pokey - Vincy for starters, and had some of the other populars get in there a little like May at GE. But no prostate play. Here's the honest truth why i'm inexperienced - i'm afraid of pooping. like, just the slight pressure of a finger entering makes me feel like I might shit. and when they have me about to cum and start poking in there, even moreso. maybe other guys experience this. if you know you're going for some prostate play, do you douche or clean yourself out? I can't help but think they're pulling out some shit if they really wanna get up there. you see videos and stuff of ass play and i assume they all douched, cuz they are totally clean. anyone want to chime in on this one for me? jokes allowed, some ridicule ok.