For the people the frequently hobby, what is your profession?

[Mo824]

I've been seeing some people say that they frequent visit spa's or hire escorts etc monthly and even weekly at times , how much are the people that hobby regularly making?? What profession are you guys in, you don't have to out yourself but I would love to know what y'all do to have spare money to spend like that. For context I'm new to the hobby and I'm still relatively young in my career, working towards moving up in the finance industry, but based on what I find out ... shit I might change lanes if the money is nice lmao. Please let a brother know how yall keeping up this hobby.

 

[Mav]

This has been asked before. Not sure how long ago but a pretty significant thread about it.

I wont bother with the number, but I do not have to worry about spending $ on this hobby. Im lucky enough to be able to go every day if I want to.

 

[xyzxyz]

This has been asked before. Not sure how long ago but a pretty significant thread about it.

I wont bother with the number, but I do not have to worry about spending $ on this hobby. Im lucky enough to be able to go every day if I want to.

That's great, I am kinda struggling to not go and use money better way.

 

[Mav]

That's great, I am kinda struggling to not go and use money better way.

Probably a good idea if you have to think about it that way.

Definitely adds up, and can become an addiction/take priority over things it shouldnt. If I wasnt in my situtaion, I wouldnt go as often as I do.

 

[xyzxyz]

Development (tech). My brain is messed up right now. Even right now I am scrolling and trying to convince myself to go.

 

[Lalallala]

Development (tech). My brain is messed up right now. Even right now I am scrolling and trying to convince myself to go.

Don’t you have some AI agents to code to do the pros and cons for you? Train it on r/personalfinance data and see what it comes up with

 

[xyzxyz]

Don’t you have some AI agents to code to do the pros and cons for you? Train it on r/personalfinance data and see what it comes up with

Sure, I can do that but I already know what I should be doing but you know the temptation takes over the mind.

 

[Pay2Play]

I've been seeing some people say that they frequent visit spa's or hire escorts etc monthly and even weekly at times , how much are the people that hobby regularly making?? What profession are you guys in, you don't have to out yourself but I would love to know what y'all do to have spare money to spend like that. For context I'm new to the hobby and I'm still relatively young in my career, working towards moving up in the finance industry, but based on what I find out ... shit I might change lanes if the money is nice lmao. Please let a brother know how yall keeping up this hobby.

I’m a financially dyslexic sex worker. I keep spending instead of earning.

 

[Social-Misfit]

I worked for everything I have, own a successful business in tech sector, 0 handed to me from parents etc. like a few in here.
So, I can afford the luxury, but choose to visit sporadically, depending on my situation at work as I do travel a bit but I'm comfortable enough to not question most purchases .

 

[Ambler]

Believe half of what you see, and none of what you hear. Okay, that may be overly cynical, but sift through the dross and pay attention to authenticity and you can extract value from this site.

And the best lesson I learned was from my Dad who told me to worry about the donut and not the hole. Bird in the hand, want what you have vs having what you want... etc, etc, etc.

That being said there are some real high rollers active here, but the real question is whether the frequency of their hobbying is something to be admired or desired. Addiction is a real issue for too many here, and for those less well situated, it can be a real problem and as mentioned above effect one's life balance and priorities.

I struggle with the addictive aspect of this hobby, for me it is not a search for constant novelty or trophy hunting or insatiable physical urges. I am one of the fortunate ones who doesn't see the financial costs of the hobby as onerous, in fact my problem is I find the best ladies provide real value for money versus the other professionals I am fated to deal with in my daily dealings. But it's the time spent that could be spent otherwise, the attention and focus that is inordinately expended that's the real cost in my not so humble opinion.

Time is all we have really, so aim for a balance that makes sense for you. But try to be honest with yourself, first and foremost, then proceed from there.

 

[Mav]

Believe half of what you see, and none of what you hear. Okay, that may be overly cynical, but sift through the dross and pay attention to authenticity and you can extract value from this site.

And the best lesson I learned was from my Dad who told me to worry about the donut and not the hole. Bird in the hand, want what you have vs having what you want... etc, etc, etc.

That being said there are some real high rollers active here, but the real question is whether the frequency of their hobbying is something to be admired or desired. Addiction is a real issue for too many here, and for those less well situated, it can be a real problem and as mentioned above effect one's life balance and priorities.

I struggle with the addictive aspect of this hobby, for me it is not a search for constant novelty or trophy hunting or insatiable physical urges. I am one of the fortunate ones who doesn't see the financial costs of the hobby as onerous, in fact my problem is I find the best ladies provide real value for money versus the other professionals I am fated to deal with in my daily dealings. But it's the time spent that could be spent otherwise, the attention and focus that is inordinately expended that's the real cost in my not so humble opinion.

Time is all we have really, so aim for a balance that makes sense for you. But try to be honest with yourself, first and foremost, then proceed from there.

Very well said

 

[BasedD]

Very well said

Fine line between addiction and passion. If its not negatively impacting your life and/or it is making you money, we lean towards passion of course.

If its a problem in your life be it financial or social, then it is an addiction.

Sidenote most truly rich dudes I know simply dont have the time for multiple spa visits per week. I dont know many retired peeps because I am not geriatric, so cant speak to them, but I would bet the multiple visit/week guys are not rich.

Ive seen too many squabble about tip amounts, from the multi visit crew, to believe any have actual riches.

 

[Mav]

Fine line between addiction and passion. If its not negatively impacting your life and/or it is making you money, we lean towards passion of course.

If its a problem in your life be it financial or social, then it is an addiction.

Sidenote most truly rich dudes I know simply dont have the time for multiple spa visits per week. I dont know many retired peeps because I am not geriatric, so cant speak to them, but I would bet the multiple visit/week guys are not rich.

Ive seen too many squabble about tip amounts, from the multi visit crew, to believe any have actual riches.

I agree with you there. I dont live in the city, but I do come down fairly often, often multiple times a week for work, and it is just part of my routine and has been for a while. Depending on the day and the feeling, i'll pop in to see some favourites or some new talent ive read about here. Makes the trip worth it in most cases.

 

[Social-Misfit]

Believe half of what you see, and none of what you hear. Okay, that may be overly cynical, but sift through the dross and pay attention to authenticity and you can extract value from this site.

And the best lesson I learned was from my Dad who told me to worry about the donut and not the hole. Bird in the hand, want what you have vs having what you want... etc, etc, etc.

That being said there are some real high rollers active here, but the real question is whether the frequency of their hobbying is something to be admired or desired. Addiction is a real issue for too many here, and for those less well situated, it can be a real problem and as mentioned above effect one's life balance and priorities.

I struggle with the addictive aspect of this hobby, for me it is not a search for constant novelty or trophy hunting or insatiable physical urges. I am one of the fortunate ones who doesn't see the financial costs of the hobby as onerous, in fact my problem is I find the best ladies provide real value for money versus the other professionals I am fated to deal with in my daily dealings. But it's the time spent that could be spent otherwise, the attention and focus that is inordinately expended that's the real cost in my not so humble opinion.

Time is all we have really, so aim for a balance that makes sense for you. But try to be honest with yourself, first and foremost, then proceed from there.

Cheers

 

[Social-Misfit]

Fine line between addiction and passion. If its not negatively impacting your life and/or it is making you money, we lean towards passion of course.

If its a problem in your life be it financial or social, then it is an addiction.

Sidenote most truly rich dudes I know simply dont have the time for multiple spa visits per week. I dont know many retired peeps because I am not geriatric, so cant speak to them, but I would bet the multiple visit/week guys are not rich.

Ive seen too many squabble about tip amounts, from the multi visit crew, to believe any have actual riches.

To be honest, wealthy people don't post in here either, to your point of being busy I can't imagine this medium being a priority in any way shape or form.
The ones that brag in here about being rich, well we know what they are

 

[BasedD]

To be honest, wealthy people don't post in here either, to your point of being busy I can't imagine this medium being a priority in any way shape or form.
The ones that brag in here about being rich, well we know what they are

not totally true, can post here while you take a shit. Youd need to find a real special girl to do the same for you...

 

[Social-Misfit]

not totally true, can post here while you take a shit. Youd need to find a real special girl to do the same for you...

Fair enough , but you'd have to set up the initial account, make it secret cause you'd most likely stand to lose everything if yer caught etc.
My opinion anyway, not worth it, they just pay escorts quietly