GF okays lap dances, but not MP's

[thebomb]

Go figure eh?
It's been a long time since I've frequented a MP. I suppose having a GF can do that you. But I must admit...I still frequent massageplanet.net (more for the lounge jokes and links). However, the itch to get a good rub grows with each hot and humid day this summer.

My GF is well aware I go to strip club with the buddies for a beer. And she knows I might get a lap dance from time to time. But she asked me one day when we passed by a massage place in a strip mall, "have you ever gone to one of those places?"
I pretty much gave it away when I said, "no comment".
To which she said, "That's okay if you've been there before, but it's not okay anymore".

I don't understand the logic...so I can get my crotch rubbed in a strip club, but not in a MP? Is the difference a matter of one thin piece of material? Oh well, I wasn't about to argue.
Anyways, I know she's probably right...but meanwhile the temptation grows as does the thing in my pants.

 

[Audrey]

... a copy of Carmen Electra's strip video so your woman can learn to dance for you.

Then buy a massage table and.... - ok - forget the table. Explore with your lady.

 

[Pompal 09.]

Here's a preview of the video... http://www.aerobicstriptease.com/store/customer/previews.php

 

[arslan_018]

It's not a matter of not exploring or her not giving me lap dances (she lap dances for me all the time). I think it's just me pinning for my old days when variety was the spice of life.

 

[Oliver Clothes-off]

Maybe she doesn't want you to run into anyone you know

 

[Dragonfly Girl]

My best guess, she read the crap in the Toronto Star, and aside from this, getting a exotic massage is far more intimate, than having a girl strip for you in a strip club more body contact ect. She may consider it a threat to the relationship between you. It is the difference between man & woman. We consider it a hobby, they consider it more than what we think it really is.

 

[Pompal 09.]

Including her??

 

[fox]

She is afraid you will run into her or friends of hers at one.

 

[sam e]

You guys gotta remember that women think a little different from Men.

She probably doesnt mind strippers because its so "commercial".... "all the guys do it".. its "harmless".. its simulated and all in good fun (generally speaking).

BUT

When it comes to MPs....Its almost like the "underworld". Remember, if you are not part of it (either directly or indirectly) there is a lot of ignorance about it.... some of these "ignorant" conceptions turn out to be somehwat true in some cases, but its more or less little blown out of proportion for the most part.

She probably pictures strip clubs as some place where guys go to drink, smoke, look at "floozies", act a fool and go home with a hard on.

Now... the MPs on the other hand, she may be picturing them all probably run by some mafia toughs sporting AK47s and Tec-9s separating out crack rock in plain view, while women are shooting heroine in the corner that have herpes all over their mouths and a nasty lil rash on their crotch. LOL

Absurd it it may sound, you'd be surprised what people think of it.

Now which sounds better to you?

 

[PLAYBOY]

Good Heavens, Lewd!

There should be an absolute, asbestos-lined firewall between your personal life and your visits to MPs, strip clubs, etc. It simply has nothing to do with your girlfriend, wife, lover, mother, sister-in-law, whatever. Why on earth would you admit, even tacitly, to what does not concern her in any way? Do you feel like hearing all about her wedding showers, shopping trips, beauty parlour visits? Men and women should have some degree of separation in their activities; both would go nuts otherwise.

 

[Bejo]

From seing both side of the adult industry(was dancer now MPA) I have to admit that woman are wrong to think different about MP.When I was dancing I seen lots of girls that would do more right in the VIP lounges and some outside the club meeting customer for some after club fun.Strip Club seem o.k to your gf or wife because it is much more accepted by society standard versus the "unknow and silence"of MP.No matter what kind of entertaiment a man decide to do, there is still a chance that a gorgeous girl is gonna take is breath away and offer "more" that what is the guideline for these places.My point is if a girl will allow their partner to go to the Strip Club and not MP she need to do some serious research on both to see that anything can or cannot happen anywhere.Maybe she should concentrate on doing the research on her man and her trust toward him, which seem more of they issue.Personally I would rather my man(if I had one.lol) going to an MP for a nude massage that at SC where a girl grins on him until he cum in is pant.What do you guys think?

 

[{*RandomGirl*}]

I think his g/f only thinks the girls dance and arent more "intimate".

 

[BIG_Jason]

Do guys really cum from a grind thru their pants?
I think I'm jealous.

 

[MetalBitchEngaged!]

That's exactly what she is thinking. I'm sure if she knew what the VIP lounge was and how things work in a typical strip club, she would have a change of heart. As Vanessa points out, there is a lot more going on than most people, on the outside realize.

As has been discussed on this board over and over, men and women are wired differently. Men also have cycles, but its not the same as the female cycle. Its to do with how often we think about sex (every seven seconds)
There are days when our sex drive is diminished and we don't think about sex all that often and other times when its constantly on our mind (every 3 seconds).

Women that understand this and want to retain their relationship, keep things interesting, they stay in shape, keep up their appearance, take care of their personal hygiene. They try new stuff and are open to suggestions that their mate may have (this is not a double standard, the guy should be staying in shape and looking after himself too).

 

[ashlee_mcholland19]

My G/F can think what ever she wants. When asked I will say haven't been anywhere in ages. These things just don't do it for me. In other words I will lie and deny deny deny.

Then when she ain't around I'll do whatever the heck I want.

What she doesn't know wont hurt her and I don't care anyway hahaha.

No, stop that,....... Did I actually write that. That's not right.

You must be incredibly concerned and totally redraft your existance so that it conforms 100% to her desires and needs.

Enjoy!

 

[Shady sam]

The truth is sometimes the truth is not the right answer.
For many questions a woman ask the answer should be No
Am I fat No
Is she prettier than me No
Ever been to an MP No
Even gone to a SC No

 

[shadowweavers]

Umm, I dont know about that one... Sometimes you need to bite the bullet and throw in the sacrificial "yes"... Just so that she doesnt start to think that your too un beleiveable and potentially full of shit. Once she starts to think that, she'll question everything you say, which aint good.

Of Course, it always depends on the girl, but I think its safe to assume that most girls would be fine with a "yes" to "Have you ever gone to an SC".... its pretty safe.

The MP one on the other hand should ALWAYS be "No"; even if she says she doesnt care

 

[Kim P]

I admit it......I came during my first lap dance.........

 

[engramagility]

Young grasshopper you have much to learn

 

[jaipeep]

I can sense you're not kidding...

...there are specialists who can treat premature ... hummmm... let's not go there!

Me, I usually go for about 5-6 songs lap dances in a row... I cannot admit to less... nor would I wish to if that were the case. I get a certain pleasure in feeling the heat build-up between us as she grinds away, and it is a feeling I enjoy making last. I am sure I could hold off longer, but then, thoughts of the cost for the thrill take over and the pleasure then fades real fast... Find me a good reason I can use to explain the larger bank account withdrawals for such an outing to the wife, and I may extend my SC time (at least the frequency...) [or better yet, return visit to my favorite MP or SP]

*sigh*