Girl friend

[Daniel - Mr. Ripley]

Next time you are approached with such a proposition, ask her what she means by girlfriend. You never know. I have actually had some nice ongoing interactions with girls where she sort of considered herself my "girlfriend". that can mean many things including:

1) She is designated as your primary and regular TJ girl. when you "party" in TJ she is your "go-to" girl. As a result, often this girl will offer more of a GFE and time, etc. in exchange for your time and buying bar drinks. It can be fun to have this kind of set-up- you show up at AB and she spots you and is all over you- this can be nice!

2)You live locally and she is contemplating more of a regular ongoing arrangement- ie you seeing her outside of the club as a regular at a hotel or private residence.

3) She is a silly/psycho girl and is actually looking for "the real thing" and thinks you have potential to take her more seriously. She is ready to make a fool out of herself to try to achieve a meaningful connection with you (very unlikely but this happens- these girls are human beings too).

4) She thinks you are soft/a newbie and sees potential for hustling you out of $$$$$$$$ in exchange for a couple of sessions of mindblowing sex. if she wants a regular allowance or a lump sum of cash for any reason (SICK CHILD, parent, money troubles) then she is trying to hustle you- forget it!

5) she likes you as a person and feels personal chemistry with you so she is offering GFE sex. The exchange is that she will expect money out of you and gifts and shit. It is the classic sugardaddy deal. If this is the case, I hate to say this but don't knock it till you try it.

I once had an arrangement where I would see one of my favorite bar girls (not in TJ) on an occasional weekday afternoon/evening on her "day off". We would hang out, go shopping (you get the hint), to the beach, to dinner or whatever and then get a room and have mind-blowing sex. I would drop some bills, but it was a blast! I got to spend the evening with a drop dead gorgeous girl on my arm and we had genuine rapport- i liked her as a person. Shit, I could afford it and have no regrets.

What fucked it up was that she started pressuring for me to raise the stakes and get her an apartment, pay her bills, etc.. I would never do that. Also, she became incredibly jealous when I even looked at other girls in the club- I was pretty much banned from entering the place except to see her- or else arguments and attitudes quickly ensued. I became HER property.

Of course, I would NEVER recommend giving a woman money if no service has been rendered (unless so ordered by you divorce order). But, you can be a sugar daddy without being a chump- to some extent. IMHO that's all that a marriage really is these days. Before you shoot this down you might want to find out what services are on the table and at what price. It might be within you budget and desires. If so, I say give it a try!

 

[Pompal 09.]

Love certainly exists in the mongers mind. I seen it work the other way around too. I seen TJ providers claim they are in LOVE, only to be left HIGH and DRY by the monger. I even know of a member on this site, I won't give his name. But he kicked his TJ wife/Girlfriend out into the street!!!

 

[redapples]

If a girl is working as a whore, in a third world country, that is not a basis for starting a relationship. TO them means girlfriend means regular. In reality all they can do is take the foolish monger for all he is willing to part with. Love cannot exist in this situation. This is why the rich marry the rich, etc. When there is such a difference in station, each party is only trying to get something from the other.

 

[Emma R]

What fireballs says makes sence.In ensenada I wrote a few girls i became friends with but they never wrote back.When i see them later on another trip they acted like they got caught with a finger in there pussy by a family member.Can all the girls just want to fuck just for money?But look at american girls they fuck you then take your house and future money that you can earn.can a man ever win? lol I have been married,had long relationships and have 2 kids.It cast me soooooooooo much.I guess it's time just to be a cold fucker and look at sex just as a bussness deal.

 

[Girl you dont know]

She may have just been playing with you, but then again maybe BELIEVED you could be a SUCKER she could play for money? You see, not so much on this site, but other SITES have guys who try to make TJ Prostitutes their real girlfriend. The Girls usually play along with the the fake relationship until the guy runs out of money or she gets really BORED. The guys even try to get the girl to quit working in the BAR and fucking for money, but just about always behind his back, she'll continue FUCKING for money. Often the case she'll be living with her bother or cousin while she is seeing this 'SUCKER Monger,' but it reality he isn't her COUSIN, but in reality her real BOYFRIEND. Often times these PUTAs will get pregnant and tell the Monger boyfriend, it's his, and he'll believe it too.[ I even know MONGER who recently had this happen to him, but lucky for him he found out in time it wasn't his, or so he says?}

So yes, it does happen frequently but in your case like me mine; I think she was only TESTING the water. I get asked that a lot too, and like her I PLAY around with it, saying things like, OK, but if you're my real Girlfriend you'll let me FUCK YOU sin-condom, or if you're my real Girl friend, I don't have to give you money to fuck, only my lOVE.

 

[Apple Pi]

When i go to mexico some of the girls ask me after sex if i'd like to have them for a girlfriend;Now does this mean a pay as you go girlfriend or a real girlfriend?Is this something they do often?Does this happen to alot to other men?