Hobbying, Sexual Exploration and Fetishes

[Lloyd J]

Since I started exploring hobbying I have found myself exploring new sexual boundaries, including fetishes, and I was curious whether this was a common experience among hobbyist or not. Up to the time I started hobbying, my sexual life has been very conservative. As a result, I find myself crossing new sexual boundaries on almost every appointment. Part of this exploration includes the exposure to fetishes.

For example, one the MTs I visited wanted to spank me (She also wanted to stick her finger in my ass). It all seemed a bit weird to me, and didn't do much for me, but it seemed to turn her on and get her her really excited, so I went along with, since there are always benefits when the provider gets excited, if you know what you mean. The whole domination-submission thing never did much for me. but I do admit that the idea of the girl submitting totally is somewhat of a turn-on - I see it as a step beyond the girl allowing you to undress her. I might go for it, but without all the equipment - whips, rope, leather, etc. I don't think I would have gotten to this point without hobbying.

Another example is that of an SP I am planning to see. She was recommended to me as one of the best conversationalists among SPs - someone who could make you feel totally comfortable even if it was your first time visiting SPs. However, it also turns out that she is one of the best at role play, and some of her reviews read like erotic stories. I have never engaged in role play, but after reading her reviews, it is something I am considering trying. Again, I don't think I would have been considering this if it were not for the hobby.

Of course there are limits. The SP I just mentioned also allows golden showers. But I would never go for that. Why would I want to pee on my SP? To me it seems like to do so would be abusing her, but I guess those that engage in it don't see it that way.

Therefore, my questions are:

To hobbyists: Has hobbying lead you to engage in new fetishes for which you previously had no interest, or possibly awakened interests that you were previously unaware of?

To SPs: What makes you decide to provide a particular fetish service to your clients? Do you offer the service simply because you enjoy it, or do you see it as niche market?

 

[Jisha]

NO :

 

[zoe]

YES :great:

 

[what?]

Maybe :neutral:

 

[debabrata h]

Yes I want to try gangbang:intello:

 

[MayDay Parade (3]

Yes, prostate massage for one. It's surpisingly intense.

I also think that if you are going to drill some pretty young thing in the ass you should know what it feels like. So you can put a checkmark in the strap-on box too. No I didn't feel gay but the PM was a better feeling :shock::go:

 

[Kevin[Loves Jayneeee]]

LOL! I find it amusing that whenever the subject of PM or use of strap-ons is discussed, there is "some" reference to this being considered a homosexual activity...

Homosexuality: is characterized generally as sexual attraction to one's own gender.

This being the case- unless the one doing the PM or pegging your ass is the same gender, then HOW can it be considered "gay". :shock:

Just saying....

 

[Dr. Tabas]

I love the first three answers.. yes no and maybe.

the more we read, see and hear the more our minds expand. I would never have thought I would ever be interested in something like a prostate massage before.

That being said, golden showed, defecation, whatever... it's not happening

 

[Deleted member 79939]

Is dirty feet a fetish ?