Announcement I Still Can’t Believe the Mistake I Made During That BDSM Session

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One day in 2017, a French submissive in Shanghai contacted me, eager for an intense, 10-hour BDSM session. After discussing boundaries (or the absence of them), I agreed, prepared for the challenge.

What began as a thrilling, unforgettable experience took an unexpected turn, teaching me a costly lesson about loss — namely, my expensive, indispensable cellphone.

The session unfolded seamlessly, with exciting moments at the submissive’s house, including a daring semi-public domination scene in a quiet restaurant nearby. At one point, I carried a teacup (yes, truly) and my phone to the ladies’ room. I returned with the teacup with my fresh pee… but left my phone behind, unaware.

Hours later, at the end of our marathon session, I realized my mistake. Rushing back to the restaurant, I found my phone gone. With no cameras in the restroom, there was no way to trace who took it.

Luckily, I always use phone locks and app-level security, so my data couldn’t be accessed or leaked. That was a huge relief in an otherwise stressful situation. Still, the financial and emotional cost stung.

Shanghai Dominatrix Alessandra