Is he just being friendly or chatting me up?

[jon]

I'm a guy and at the gym theres a guy I have seen around occasionally and said hi on passing a couple of times. Today he came up to me and asked me how I was and whether I fancied a coffee afterwards.

How on earth do I tell if he is just being friendly, or whether he is after something else?????? For a start I am not gay.

I felt really awkward for even assuming he was after something else so said I'd have a quick drink afterwards. So we met in the club room and had a quick chat - then on leaving he asked me if I fancied a bite to eat the following day.

I rapidly made up an excuse but again, had no idea whether he was just being friendly. Just as I left he asked if he could have my phone number - I made up a (terrible admitadly) excuse that I didnt know what it was as it was new!

Seriously though - I have no interest in him. What should I do? I dont want to sound a **** by saying I dont fancy him or whatever if genuinely he is just being polite and friendly. Would feel right stupid

Anyone have any advice as no doubt he will be at the gym tomorrow and I'm not sure I will have a good excuse for not having a bite to eat!!!!

 

[Daniel T]

i will make the conversation and next time if he asks you do how i explained in the conversation

guy:hey you wanna get some coffee afterwards?
you:yo bro get off my nuts im not gay
(raise your fist if you were going to fight him)
guy:im not gay its just a friendly talk
(raise fist higher)
you:nigga what the hell did i just say
(lower fist and pull out gun(oh yeah you need a gun)point it at him)
guy:woah calm down man
you:me calm? CALM.. CALM IS MY MIDDLE NAME
(shoot a bullet into the air make sure it lands next to him so you mean serious buisness)
guy:what the fuck i just wanted to be friends wow man your crazy
(guy starts to walk away grab his shoulder)
you:i love you
guy:your gay too?
(pull out gun shoot him in the leg)
you:bitch i fucking knew you were gay
guy:ahh my leg its bleeding help
(guy starts to sob)
you:yeah bitch try to talk to me again and see what happens
(plant a grenade on him and walk off and make sure when the grenade explodes theirs a camera in front of you so it seems cool like you walk away from a explosion)
(after your done go back and work out)

repeat process every time a guy seems suspicious