Lomi Lomi - Therapists Discussion

[Sun&SandMan]

If she told you she was from Japan or Japanese, I feel surprised and to be honest I don't believe that. The following is my personal opinion on Japan or the Japanese, and has nothing to do with massage. You may not know that as a Chinese with a sense of national pride, I/we should not say that I’m/we are Japanese, nor should we make an analogy.

This is a historical issue. Our country was invaded by the Japanese during World War II, and trillions of Chinese people were massacred by the Japanese. Until now, their government and textbooks are still trying to erase this history. I like and admire the Germans because they admit the crimes committed in the massacre of the Jews.

Especially as a Chinese, she/he can completely say that she/he are Chinese. Why does she/he have to compare himself/herself to a Japanese? He/she can be Korean or someone else.She may not know or forget that her city was massacred by Japanese invaders 70 years ago, who killed defenseless women and children.

Of course it never happened in your country, you don’t know the history and you are not wrong. That's why I was angry when a staff member said she was Japanese. Of course I hope you heard it wrong.

This topic has nothing to do with massage, and I will not accept rebuttal.

Well here is your rebuttal to think about: My previous business partner (RIP) went on a month long holiday to vietnam. While touring on a buss with his wife, he got to know the young gentleman (Approximately 22 years old) that was driving / tour guide. His work shift was 28 days on and one day off to go back home to his new young family. My business partner asked him if the young people in Vietnam had animosity towards USA or Canadian people due to the past war that occurred.

Without even thinking about it the young tour guide confidently answered: We don't look at the past, we only look at the good future we have because that is what makes our lives happy. We cherish all visiting people including USA so we have good jobs to support our families.

I thought about this and couldn't believe this statement came from this young kid just starting out in life that only gets to see his young wife for one day per month. He genuinely felt privileged to be able to have a happy life and to spend time with foreign people learning about them.

 

[forster]

Well here is your rebuttal to think about: My previous business partner (RIP) went on a month long holiday to vietnam. While touring on a buss with his wife, he got to know the young gentleman (Approximately 22 years old) that was driving / tour guide. His work shift was 28 days on and one day off to go back home to his new young family. My business partner asked him if the young people in Vietnam had animosity towards USA or Canadian people due to the past war that occurred.

Without even thinking about it the young tour guide confidently answered: We don't look at the past, we only look at the good future we have because that is what makes our lives happy. We cherish all visiting people including USA so we have good jobs to support our families.

I thought about this and couldn't believe this statement came from this young kid just starting out in life that only gets to see his young wife for one day per month. He genuinely felt privileged to be able to have a happy life and to spend time with foreign people learning about them.

Everyone has different ideas. I don't refute your point of view, I respect your point of view,

as a Chinese, it is shameful to regard ourself as Japanese, because their country and government have always denied this cruel historical issue. For example, if your family or your ancestors were persecuted by the Japanese, for example, of course you can say that you like Japan, but I don't believe you will say that you are Japanese. You must know that liking Japan and being Japanese are two different meanings. Of course, we must look forward and embrace a bright future, but we cannot forget the past. The cruel history tells every Chinese that if our country does not progress, it will suffer aggression and discrimination. Now China is the world's largest trading economy, and even the United States wants to hinder the development of the Chinese at all times.

 

[boysgame]

Everyone has different ideas. I don't refute your point of view, I respect your point of view,

as a Chinese, it is shameful to regard ourself as Japanese, because their country and government have always denied this cruel historical issue. For example, if your family or your ancestors were persecuted by the Japanese, for example, of course you can say that you like Japan, but I don't believe you will say that you are Japanese. You must know that liking Japan and being Japanese are two different meanings. Of course, we must look forward and embrace a bright future, but we cannot forget the past. The cruel history tells every Chinese that if our country does not progress, it will suffer aggression and discrimination. Now China is the world's largest trading economy, and even the United States wants to hinder the development of the Chinese at all times.

please, are you planning or hiring any new RMT soon?

 

[Albertaman]

Listen - first of all - expressing personal perspectives like "we hate japan" is the thing that immediately fucks up a group forum about sensual massage. If all that matters is the massage was good, as you said - then don't say the other stuff? Its simple, really.

Second - you've been pretty decent and respectful to me when booking over the last year or so. I appreciate it. I've gone there a lot. Not your most regular i'm sure, but a lot. That said, the stuff you say on this forum feels pretty off-center. And its double weird coming from a manager of the women. My opinion only. I don't like it really. Makes me feel like I don't want to say anything anymore because it will affect the women in a bad way, you know? Think about that.

And I don't like getting into pissing matches online, but I will step into this a little bit for the sake of everyone else looking for real information here - I've been at Lomi a lot, repeated with a number of women a lot also. I talk during massage, we get to know each other. Over 4, 5, 6 massages you start to understand people. So I can say with a lot of confidence that the ages of the women told to me on the texts is never the age they eventually confess to me in the room. Sometimes off by 4 years, sometimes off by more than 15. Information told about their mix of ethnicity has also been inaccurate. Do I care? Not really, I keep coming back. If i'm told they are young, 23, and that turns out to be wrong, I generally don't care, because they are still young to me, bubbly fun personality, the number doesn't matter. The ethnicity mix matters nothing to me.

So the point of this is - this is a place all of us dudes should feel safe and free to share accurate information so we all get to make informed decisions for ourselves - and I just don't love it when misinformation is still being pushed. So I'll push back. Respectfully. I've always enjoyed my time at Lomi and would still like to return. Lots of great talent there. Except my last visit. Which i didn't post about, but i got suggested someone who was not enjoyable at all. But thats life, can't win em all.

Age off by 4 years is not a big deal, off by 15 years is a deal breaker


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[Orbit6000]

Age off by 4 years is not a big deal, off by 15 years is a deal breaker


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My in my early 40's. If I see an RMT that is 50-55 that's cool with me. I saw a therapist 10 years older than me last week and it was awesome.