MP to SP

[Campong T]

A question to those gentlemen who only go to non-fs MPs. You must have been tempted to cross the line and go to SPs. What stops you from doing it? I frequent MPs but sometimes a hj is just not enough and I go see SPs occasionally. Here's my conclusion - if you click with an MPA who is gorgeous and provides standard MP mileage, you'll have a good session. But if you click with an awesome SP, you'll have a great session. Good vs great.

 

[provider 8]

That is assuming you define FS and other extras as "better". I've seen a couple of incall SP's and have had way better experiences with some MPA's in compatibility with my "needs".

I just ain't a wham bam thank you mam, kinda guy, it seems, especially when condoms enter the equation, but generally I prefer the intimacy level of MP's. FS without slow passionate DFK and DATY just don't do it for me. Thats not to say I do it with everyone. YMMV.

 

[Armund Steele]

Then how about slow passionate DFK and DATY and other extras before FS? Wouldn't that be better? And that's what I meant by great.

 

[wendy c]

Mp attendants are much easier to book than SPs and there is far more to choose from. Not forgetting that once in a while you can get lucky with an MPA also - so you have the best of both worlds. It's really a matter of personal preference but personally, I am with pool on this one.

 

[care]

SP Luver, yes that's entirely possible, but we'd be looking at a longer session so it's hard to make a direct comparison. I haven't had the chance to find an SP thats compatible with me, so cant truly comment. I am however content with the experience I've had with the few MPA's I truly click with. I guess it's a case of priorities. My biggest problem with that is also that condoms really ruin the whole thing for me, both as a physical and mental barrier. I wouldn't expect or likely engage ( I cant say 4 sure, I can be weak ) in BBFS so it's just a personal issue for me.

Jazz and Paul, you know you are each special to me in your own way

 

[Old Hippie]

I prefer MPs because like Pool, I also dislike condoms. I can have a great session with a girl at a MP and walk away feeling very content.
I tried a SP this week, condom was too small, she was going for an Oscar award in the faking category, and because of the tight condom it ended too soon.
My last massage with a very attractive green eyed girl(Amber) was much better than the FS experience.

 

[Natalie Gorden]

Condom too small, that's certainly not a bad problem. But how was the foreplay?

Pool, from your post, I sense that you're implying you have problems maintaining erection when the glove is on, or am I wrong? Don't worry, it must have happened to a lot of men. Condoms are erection killers sometimes especially when you are older.

If I had a million bucks, I'd go see SPs everytime. But I don't. The best thing about MPs is that you could spend 60 bucks and still have a good time with a good-looking MPA. I'd like to hear the opinions from more people.

 

[~Tabitha~ :)]

It just depends what I'm in the mood for. Some days I just don't want FS and there are a few MPAs that I've really clicked with who leave me feeling like a million bucks everytime. It also varies on my budget, if I have some extra cash flow and I'm in the mood, I might decide to spend a bit extra and go see an SP, more often than not though I visit an MPA instead.There are many variables in this equation and its all relative to individual circumstances. Don't forget about married guys who may feel FS is crossing the line but maintain a clear conscience about just going to get a massage.

 

[Miistaa Bashmentt]

SP Luver,

I wasn't really implying that erectile "malfunction" is the problem, although I can see how you took it that way and I have experienced that problem on occasion throughout my life for whatever variables.

My problem is partly the lack of sensitivity a condom causes ( it doesn't matter how thin ) On occasion I've found a girl who's compatible ( tight enough and can control her muscles - no, I'm not saying I have a little dick, but that's none of your business .. he he ) Generally though, I can last a long time with a condom, which is the problem. After an hour the thrill has completely gone for me.

On the mental side a condom is like a barrier to me. It's been that way since as long as I can remember and I can't seem to shake it. Much like the one time I tried saran wrap DATY, it just kills that mentally perceived physical contact. The same applies to CBJ. Performed on me that is although it would apply the other way round as well.

For a second there I was wondering where you could get a session for $60, but I'm guessing we seek different experiences. Money is not a factor ( even though my VISA proclaims otherwise ) in my preference for MPA's, because with my favourite MPA's I tend to spend more than an hour with an SP would cost. I get more time, but all the necessary GFE factors and subtleties, as I perceive them, are present. That's not to say my idea of a PSE can't be achieved with an MPA, but she's retired.

One last thing; it's also easier to select an MPA based on physical preference and for me at least, I've become aware of more that intrigue me. I think there's more variety and it's easier to "sample" for lack of a better term, as well as investigate this aspect in advance and/or prior to the session. I can be very shallow in regard to looks, even though personality and mannerism can enhance of detract from physical appearance to a large extent.

OK, that wasn't the last thing. It's my perception, there's also more of a YMMV factor and possibility of the unexpected or unknown territories with MPA's depending on where and who you explore with. With SP's you pretty much know what their service will entail, within reason.

 

[TTC 19 month #1]

I disagree. There are a lot of BB pussy sliding at MPs, that's very risky. I don't think risk is an important factor choosing between MPs and SPs. DATY with MPAs and SPs has the same amt of risk.

After all these discussions, there are still no clear answers why ppl only go to MPs except perhaps the convenience factor, which I agree. I'm just curious, not doing any research papers.

 

[Tomba53]

Ivan,

I can sympathize with you - I have encountered "condom" shock! It cuts off all sensation for me and I have to finish off with a HJ.
This is why I prefer to go to an MP. Besides, the girls are more
attractive and the sessions more erotic.

 

[nostrilburier]

Here's a bit of a different spin on it:

Forgetting about the condom thing (I don't like them either but will use them for safety reasons) it comes down to how well you click, the ability to select more easily, money, and risk.

1) We all know an hour with an attendata (MPA) without FS or BJ is less expensive then an hour with an SP (even moreso if you factor in a hotel). The top end MP's will charge between $140-$260 for an hour with the best options (not FS or BJ). An hour with a SP will charge $200-$300 and hour (sometimes more) then throw in another $100 for a hotel. For me to switch to an SP I'd need to find the best SP out there who is all over me from the get-go. The extra $100-$200 bucks is a big factor considering that with that money I can get another 30/60 minute session with one of my favourite MPA's

2) MP's offer a selection that you can see. If you go an MP and get there early you can see if your attendant or other attendants are physically appealing to you (pictures make it hard to tell sometimes). You can't do this with an SP, you must rely on the pictures and reviews alone.

3) There is a security aspect involved in an MP that you can't often get when seeing a SP. In an MP she feels safe as there are alot of other people around in case of distress. For the same reason I feel less likely to get ripped off as it could cause problems for the MP owner. In an MP the MPA has full control of the session and is as restictive or as liberal as she desires. Guys going to MP's have lower expectations then those going to SP's therefore it is a treat if you click with an attendant and she becomes more liberal. With an SP the expectations are higher so that there is a greater likelihood of dissappointment.

4) As for the BB pussy sliding there is some risk. However, the spas most of the guys that have responded go to are Licensed. Part of that licensing requires the attendants to take medical tests to verify that they are disease free. It may still be risky but just less risky as we perceive it.