The amount of absorption of essential oils applied externally will alter from person to person depending on the condition of the skin and the part of the body that the oils are applied to - the forehead, injured or inflamed skin, mucous membranes, palms, scalp, shoulders and soles of the feet being relatively permeable. Whereas the abdomen, back, buttocks, chest and legs are relatively impermeable.
You raise the point Thell that when the client has had a bath with oils the skin is more absorbant, likewise if someone is in a spa and has had saunas, jaccuzis, rasuls etc their skin will absorb more essential oils than if they had walked in off the street for a massage.
I can assure you Thell, that Patricia Davis certainly mentioned in her aromatherapy course (of which I have a diploma) that massage using Fennel would have an effect also.
Kurt Schnaubelt in his book Advanced Aromatherapy suggests that application of essential oils dermally provides a high concentration of oil in the desired location, for example aching muscles, because they have the ability to penetrate tissue very quickly. This is a far safer mode of using the essential oils than ingestion, because direct absorption into the liver is avoided.
Aromatherapy is not just massage, it is the use of essential oils in a number of ways. Inhallations, baths, compresses, burners, and more subtle approaches with the use of crystals to balance chakras and in the aura of the person (don't ask how the subtle side of it works, take my word for it).
Why don't you pop down to your local aromatherapist and give it a go and see how you feel afterwards. After all it is not head stuff, unless you are one of those peeps that like to knock something without having direct experience of it. I say connect the mental with the physical this is what an holistic treatment is all about making those connections.
Binah
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