Honest answer:
There's an unwritten rule here that you have to prove yourself a worthy source of infomation in order for others to share their information with you. That's because the board members with alot of experience have forked over alot of money over the years to find a good experience.
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Why share what you've spent so much time and money to find with the world and risk losing it (overpopularity of attendant so it becomes too hard to book, pushy clients putting attendant in bad moods, etc.). Selective dissemination of information is the norm here unless it is already common public knowledge.
There is an initiation period for Newbies where senior memberrs try to size up whether he's legit or not and has anything good to share in return. Anybody who only asks questions and does not share in return tends to be annoying. Why? Because, we all went through this unwritten right of passage whereby we had to offer up our own useful experiences before we've earned the right to receive useful information in return.
Share with us and we'll sooner or later share in return. But, GIMME...GIMME...GIMME...just doesn't fly here. There are rules against posting anything negative about other posters. Joking is the way we try to indicate a thread doesn't provide much value without it coming off as an attack on another board member.