Retiring from Massage

[Cherry*Blossom6]

Tooo much money wasted! well not wasted...but its just time. Happy endings people.

All the best.

Now how do I delete this account?

 

[Alisha]

Before I go....thought Id share some nice and good MPAs that Ive met along the way. Ofcourse beauty is in the eye of the beholder but even if you don't find them pretty....they are guaranteed good service.

Top 10 recommended

1) Sonia @ Ambassador
2) Mya@ Studio 9
3) Layla @ Alphacare
4) Nina @ Atlantis
5) Sky @ Lexa/Star
6) Christina @ Lexa/Star
7) Sara @ Studio 9
8) Jessica @ Eurohaven
9) Jasmine @ Sahar Studio
10) Rose @ AlphaCare

Have fun gentlemen. But treat them nicely, they are all very cool

 

[rock freak]

Enjoy your retirement. Mine typically lasts about six weeks.

 

[Jane Marple]

good for you brother! thanks for the top 10 list! if only i could be as strong as you!!

 

[LAkers Fan]

Lol. Stick around the hobby long enough and you'll quit.

Once you discover the reality of the business, the thrill and mystique quickly fade away.

Ignorance truly is bliss.

 

[sweetiegrl04]

still cant find out how to delete this account!
ANYONE??

oh..and if anyone knows the wherabouts of zara from muse or latika from lawrence spa...then I will be coming out of retirement.

zara was the most beautiful girl. and latika was an authentic fob cute east indian with cute accent and with amazing service.

those are my 2 favs of all time. if they come back from retirement, then so do I!!!

and teaseplease: I like that. Ignorance is bliss. Have to leave with those words in mind.

 

[nuclearbroods]

PM Fred, the Admin. He can delete your account and block your IP so you can't get back in.

 

[Amanda Lynn]

Write a blatantly bold review of an MPA that provided full service. Include details as to the name of the spa and the services provided. That oughta get your account cancelled pretty quick.

 

[Ate Bit Tyson]

While I understand where you're coming from, not sure some of us are smart enough to let the thrill fade too much. I've "retired" from the hobby a few times for various reasons: girlfriends, disgust at the amount of money I spent, bad expereinces, disenfranchised with the whole MP/SP thing, but the reality is sooner or later (usually after a month or two) I start to edge back in and before I know it I'm visiting 2-3 times a week again (although I usually go MP, not SP, as I love a good massage). Still, maybe when old age catches up with me I'll retire for good. Tomorrow.

 

[sas35353535]

LOL. It has little to do with smarts or bad sessions.

It has more to with getting to know the girls personally, peeking behind the wizard's curtain and ultimately being unable to buy into the fantasy.

Some guys can rationalize it, some can't. To each their own.

 

[Insane In The Dwayne]

Agreed. The changes for me always happened when I got involved with an MP or SP on a personal basis, which has happened a lot. Then it`s easy to get disillusioned as you see all the stuff you thought was sincere is really just an act. Until the next one comes along.

 

[Starz]

It's more than seeing through the act. It's seeing through the person, and seeing the reality of the lifestyle and mentality.

We can all appreciate that its an act in the room, but what happens when you realize that a person is also faking their "real life"?

The fantasy is NOT what happens in the room. The fantasy is believing that this hobby is harmless and everyone goes in with eyes wide open.

 

[Fall time!!]

Good sessions make me repeat. Bad ones make me look for a better one. I've been in this trap longer than I should and can't find my way out or is it that i don't want to find my way out?

 

[Daniel I]

Ive spent way too much on this hobby. I also said its money well spent but in the end there so much more I could have in my life if I didn't get into massages. Some regrets about it all but not all bad as Ive had lots of fun.

but its definitely borderline addiction and it has to stop now.

one day done and feeling great about my new life without massage.

 

[natalie.anastasakis]

Good for you. Hope you can stay away. See ya soon

 

[teapot91]

The thing about massage which is different from SPs is that it's really hard to find a civie who can do it. Things like stripping and body slides just don't come naturally to most women. That's why I go to MPAs more than SPs. Whereas, sex comes easily and you do find some civvies who engage in PSE type activities from time to time. But never yet met a civvie who knew how to do a body slide. In fact, if she did, it would be a dead giveaway that she's an MPA.

 

[rurouni]

Wow! A lot of guys feel the same way. The addiction is bad and it gets us all. I was out and had no intention of going back. Then one day I am pumping gas and one of my old girl friends showed up at the same gas station. I said hello, she threw her arms around me and her smell brought so many memories back that before I knew it my memory was back at that place. The passion we had was so amazing that now I am having a hell of a time keeping the thoughts out of my mind. We are both involved in relationships, but we have such strong chemistry it’s hard to stay away. I really don’t want to go back, but every day is a struggle. I also don’t want to call her again because I don’t want to fuck up my relationship or hers.

 

[Logan R]

Thanks carey. Hope you find what you're looking for outside of the massage game. Of that list I have seen Sara and she is one of my ATF. I still have to get to see Sonia, she's been on my TDL forever.

 

[wildy]

Oh ya, the money..... I think about that a lot.
Over the years I spent half of my money on women and drinking,
The rest I just wasted.

 

[francisco h]

That was always one of my favorite quips! I often find women and drinking are connected. And not always in a good way. Usually when I'm not chasing, I'm not drinking