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..even for marriage purposes?
When Ali (ra) went to ask for Fatima's (ra) hand in marriage, did he go directly to her and ask? or did he even go to her and have casual chit chat? NO. He went straight to her father, Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) and asked HIM instead.
“Say to the believing men that they should lower their gaze and guard their private parts; that will make for greater purity for them. Indeed Allaah is well acquainted with all that they do.†[an-Nur (24):30]
How can someone be lowering their gaze and then have casual chit chat? That's right, you can't.
@Top of the dude chain - did you need read the example above? And casual chit chat is the road to zina.
When Ali (ra) went to ask for Fatima's (ra) hand in marriage, did he go directly to her and ask? or did he even go to her and have casual chit chat? NO. He went straight to her father, Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) and asked HIM instead.
“Say to the believing men that they should lower their gaze and guard their private parts; that will make for greater purity for them. Indeed Allaah is well acquainted with all that they do.†[an-Nur (24):30]
How can someone be lowering their gaze and then have casual chit chat? That's right, you can't.
@Top of the dude chain - did you need read the example above? And casual chit chat is the road to zina.