should i be offended if the guy im 'talking' to didnt message me on facebook chat...

[Taylor K.]

...when we were both on? im almost positive we both like each other. we hung out on friday, and it was GREAT. we cuddled and kissed and ahhh i just signed on fb for a few minutes, and his little green light was on, but he didnt message me? sometimes we chat on there, sometimes we dont. should i be offended he didnt message me? i wonder if he was offended that i didnt message him..hmmm? tell me what ya think.

 

[Enita]

He's either a player and just wanted to hook up, OR he's playing it 'cool' and making you think about him. (and it's working cause you posted this Q!) and he'll come crawling to you soon enough, just ignore him!!!

 

[Michaela Langley]

You shouldn't be offended, I've done that before, accidentally left my computer on facebook, someone messages me, and I don't realize it until it's to late, hours later, minutes late, you get the point. maybe that's what he did. maybe his internet was slow, who knows? you could ask.

 

[Don L]

I don't get upset when I IM someone who I see is online and they do not reply. Everyone signed in is not sitting in front or their PC. This may be hard to see, but I have done it many times.

 

[Julianne T]

Maybe he is away, but the light hasn't changed to the moon thing yet

Best of luck

 

[Bliss]

No don't be offended and don't show it if u are... There could be several reasons why he didn't message u. Just think about it,

 

[valerie]

Fb chats kinda funny. Don't worry too much. Next time inbox or text

 

[The It Girl]

honestly? people don't keep checking the chat to see who got on constantly he probably didn't notice you logged on. he's not offended that you didn't message him! you guys don't have to be talking all the time, relax, it's nothing

 

[Ashley]

no. face book chat was made by 5 year olds , it messes up & lies
dont trip on him
he will run away
that shows ur already too attached and it will scare him

 

[Misa Bella]

Yup, just do it...

 

[suhail_08]

no its totaly fine


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[reject]

no, take baby steps, no big deal stay calm. he might have been multi-tasking

 

[Fsfd Fdsfsdf]

No.

Just delete your facebook so you don't have to fret about stuff like this.

 

[Olivia]

There's Many Reasons:
-didn't see you
-it might not of even been him on it
-he might have been away and it didn't change yet
-or he's just stressed and didn't feel like talking to anyone.
Don't Overreact.