Should I break up with my boyfriend for chatting with other girls online?

[seijinumaru]

My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost two years and are compatible in damn near every way possible with the same hobbies, interests, and values. However apparently he has "moments of weakness" where he feels the urge to chat online with others girls. I have busted him doing this not once, but twice.

The first time was a year ago on New Years and I found that he had a Badoo account where he posted that he was looking to "talk about sex" with local girls. I called him out on it but eventually decided to give him another chance.

Then just yesterday I received a Badoo invitation in my email. Curiosity got the best of me so I made a fake account to make sure he was being a good boy. Lo and behold, his profile was one of the first to pop up, only this time he was clever to put another name. I confronted him when he got home, so overwhelmed by the repeat offense that I slapped him and cut his lip. I asked him why and he said it was a "moment of weakness."

We are now at a standstill. Do we breakup for good or is there such thing as a second, second chance?

 

[Boo Cookie]

First of all, hitting him was the wrong thing for you to do and you should apologize about it when you cool down. I've read countless questions on here about guys getting slapped by their girlfriends, and responding back with violence themselves, and it never helps anyone.

Take a different approach to this. Instead of scolding him, tell him how it makes you feel and ask him why he does it, then decide what to do from there. Get both sides of the story first before resorting to blame and violence

 

[Ashera]

Yes, break up with him. It's only a matter of time before chatting online isn't enough and he has an affair with one of these girls. I'm also sure he's done a lot more that you don't know about. He's a liar and unable to commit. Your relationship is doomed to fail anyway, you might as well save yourself a lot of pain and break up now.

 

[Albert Wesker]

hmm idk. he might be just friends with em