cl794
Active Member
Couple of observations.
1.Promoters should not get into a shouting match with customers. A lose lose situation. This is especially true of promoters like KJ and Jimmy. They love the ban option.
2. Girls talk (gossip). Many of their conversation gets lost in the translation. English not being their first language. If you can speak Mandarin or Cantonese you will know the difference.
Even if the customer is totally in the wrong and deserve to get banned by the spa, the promoter/owner can go about it in a "less-crazy" way. It's not illegal to the high road. Make it clear you're banning the customer and leave it at that.
The total melt-down by Jimmy made SL tainted for me. I wouldn't really consider it now. (I know SL doesn't need my business, just saying maybe the "promoter" is not doing the best job.
On the second point, there's no point for us to get on some moral high horse and criticize them for excessive gossiping. I do believe gossiping can often give unfair picture when it's talking behind someone's back and girls simply might instinctively paint themselves in a better light in story-telling. I mean, these are not some crimes, just human nature. But having said all that, after extending the consideration and grace to the girls, maybe consider extending some consideration to the customer/guy being gossiped about too. I'm not some psychologist, but my understanding is that you cannot simply take what they say literally. You actually have to perform some judgement yourself. You cannot put the burden on the girls to be totally truthful to you.