Sybarite
Known Reviewer
Very sorry for the lack of response. I needed some time to reply properly.
I tried to share with Butch and others who might be interested the body type and session he’s looking for as honestly as I can in the hopes that would be helpful.
I don’t expect anyone else to agree with me, but since you’re asking it is a personal thing that I don’t feel comfortable sharing blow by blow descriptions of my sessions either in the forum or via pm.
There are a lot of different reasons why I feel this way that would take some time to fully explain, but here are a few:
In general I feel it really hurts the girls in the business, and in many ways it doesn’t even help the guys either, which compounds the harm it causes for the women because of the dubious value of the information.
Since working in the spa is not the same as escorting, one of the main benefits for girls who choose massage is that MPAs can pick and choose which services they want to provide to which clients under which circumstances.
If they like you enough for whatever reason (tipping, repeat business, chemistry, hygiene, etc.) that they decide to provide you with a service that they may not necessarily choose to provide for everyone, when you go online and publicize your blow jobs, DFK and everything else, these girls then have to potentially deal with a hoard of guys showing up expecting the exact same session when MPAs don’t necessarily want to provide the same extras to every single guy who walks through the door.
I am incredibly grateful to these ladies who make me so happy, and accordingly I don’t want to make their lives more difficult and complicated. If I meet any girls who want the explicit details of their services plastered all over the internet I’ll happily do so.
Furthermore I don’t really understand why it is so critical for guys to have a bunch of acronyms guaranteed before they will visit someone. You yourself said it’s not necessary and I totally agree.
If someone looks very hot, is incredibly well reviewed and I’m saying their service level is great by Premier standards, shouldn’t that be enough to just see them yourself? For so many guys the answer seems to be ‘no’, they also need some sort of a guarantee of the sexual services they will receive before they visit. Those people should visit escorts.
When it comes to massage everything is YMMV. No matter what type of session I received there are no guarantees. At the spa all they are obligated to provide a happy ending and everything else is a bonus at their discretion. When you effectively imply online certain services are available to every single type of guy out there you are taking away their discretion and flexibily that caused them to choose massage in the first place, and robbing them of a certain degree of privacy and respect I think they deserve. Again I don’t expect anyone to agree with me on this, especially in this forum, but that’s how I feel.
But no matter how I feel about it, since other posters will confirm anyways who gave them BBBJs, DATY etc. etc., then presumably guys will be happier because they will then have all the information they need to make their best choice right? Wrong!… as this thread amply demonstrates: http://massageplanet.net/bad-experience-with-aaliyah-pure.t147250/
Personally I think it ruins the experience when you go into a session expecting to duplicate someone else’s session you read about online. To me the fun, surprise and excitement of massage is never really knowing what is going to happen, and I believe guys would enjoy it more if they just experienced each girl as she is rather than going in with a whole bunch of preconceived expectations they read about online.
Arguably this advance ‘intel’ everyone feels is so critical makes them enjoy their sessions even less! Besides the fact that there is no guarantee you will get the same session that I received no matter what I tell you, things are further complicated by the fact that many people providing the more graphic details are often providing completely false information for all sorts of different reasons: because they are spreading false rumours purposefully trying to hurt the MPA, because they are competitors trying to hurt a rival spa, because they are bragging and exaggerating their own sexual prowess, because they are completely faking what services they’ve received in order to trick other posters into discussing their sessions in more detail, etc. etc.
Furthermore because everyone on here is anonymous you never know who is really asking you the question in the first place, and what they’ll do with the information you share with them. As soon as you send a pm expecting your information will be kept in confidence it can ultimately be shared with countless others once it’s out of your hands. And while it may seem like it’s just another curious hobbyist who is asking, in many cases it’s actually jealous MPAs wanting dirt on their competitors, angry boyfriends wanting details on their MPA girlfriends, stalkers, haters, other spas, LE, etc. etc. etc.
I have many more reasons than these but in general I think it’s enough to say that if a girl is hot, well reviewed, and provides good service and attitude that should be enough to merit a visit, and my apologies in advance to everyone who feels that is still insufficient.
