The "IT" Factor!

[twoasonesfl]

Time for a positive, this-is-why-we-love-massages, upbeat, happy SuperBowl Day, kinda thread!!

Based on recent discussion, I have been thinking through my 'career' as an MPA....alot has changed over the years. Some for the better, some...well, not so much. But a few things seem to remain strong....Girls and Spa's with that IT Factor always succeed! Simon Cowell preaches it, fame and fortune rewards it, and in this business, popularity reigns!

I want you thoughts about this....whether its a fav MPA u just met, or a fav you have seen for years! A hidden gem or a ledgend! Girls from years past and present days stars! The biggest and best spa, or that perfect little place no one knows about!

What has always done it for you?
What makes them/it different?
How do/did you feel before and after each visit?
Your best MP memory? MPA? Chitchat? Phone call?

For you as individuals, what is the IT Factor for you???

 

[AAinBoston]

As an attendant, I can see the "it" factor in action too. There's always a certain special something about girls who are successful that's not always easy to put your finger on.

 

[Momof2]

I like the old topic better. I don't think that this topic can be properly discussed openly on a public board....unless we ignore the elephant in the room which makes the discussion make believe.

 

[Pompal 09.]

For me it is the combination of looks and the chemistry & yes there is always that hard to define reason (Which you can call the IT Factor) which can make a session great.

To keep me hooked, consistency is a must & more teasing trick always help.

I think that any girl with a pleasant personality and decent looks alone can well in this line of work.

I always liked my current fav. but the IT factor was missing for all of those yrs., Then suddenly something happened & we started clicking even better, quite possibly the IT factor was discovered.

 

[Aiden]

Ahhh I love that! Delayed chemistry!! That happens once in a blue moon....always takes you off guard! Rather like normal male/female dynamics! Brings a very real energy to the friendship! Great call MILUPA!

 

[Envy Is My God]

Being a brunnette on the MPA's part helps with the "it" factor, but is not essential. More important with me is some degree of rapport, so that we can talk (maybe dirty, maybe about life) and flirt. Nothing serious. For repeats, slight variations on the "performance" help, as it ensures it is not a robot or formula session.

 

[GoT MiLk?]

I like my sessions where I talk to the girl when she is massaging me and it's not about work but about her goals and ambitions...that is "IT" for me baby...as I love taking them under my wing and leading them to their goals with my business contacts etc.

They help me get my dinky stinky...I help them move on to bigger and better things!

 

[Nathan R]

Attractive, sensual and really enjoying being with the customer. Even if the girl is not the most attractive sensuality and great customer service will keep them coming back. Even though you maybe her fifth client for that day treating each session as unique makes a guy feel welcome.
Listening to the client about technique and remebering what he likes from previous sessions means it is not a routine she is doing for every session.
Pretty women with a poor attitude don't get many repeats. Just like in SC where the pretty women wonder why an average looking dancer is getting all the action. They often feel she must be giving extras but in reality she is giving extra care and attention to her customers.
Guys talk with their wallets. They won't say if a session was bad because they have already made up their mind not to waste funds on her again. If at the end of a session the girls has to ask "did you enjoy it?" he will usually say yes even if he isn't coming back. However if she can seriously say to the client "I really enjoyed myself during our session and I hope to see you again." this phrase will have more of an impact on a return visit.

 

[Power of m squared]

I definitely believe in love/lust at first sight. With certain ladies the attraction was instantaneous.

In alphabetical order:

ASHLEY @ SRM (the original Indian one)
> I walked into SRM and KBear was taking her website pictures in the waiting area! I made a joke which she remembered til the last time I saw her... although I'll be damned if I remember it now myself.

ATHENA @ MP of the week.
> She was wearing a hot little black dress @ Platinum. We cuddled up close and I was smitten.


JASMINE @ S9
> We shook hands and started chatting like we were old friends! Probably my HOTTEST first appt too.

LEE @ SRM
> I first eyed Lee @ the SRM party last summer. She was chatting with another client and gave me a BIG smile! I could have taken her home (via eloping in Vegas) then and there. LOL

LEXXI @ S9
> She met me at front reception dressed in cut off shorts and a nice top. She was the ONLY girl available(!) and I felt like I'd won the lottery. One of the most beautiful women this middle aged guy has ever seen, and a damned nice girl too.

MAYA @ A & R
> She flashed me a smile at front reception wearing her hot pink dress. Guys who've seen Maya know exactly which one I mean! I was probably her 10th client that day and she treated me like her first. As a sidenote I hope she's doing OK now.

SHANTI @ Star/Lexa
> All I remember is that I was living in Mississauga at the time. I drove home on such a high I missed my cut off from the QEW!

With other MPA's, I built a close relationship over time.

 

[LaurShark]

I knew an exotic dancer in an SC a number of years ago, (average face, great body) that was never not in the VIP area with a client, despite her rules of no touching. Her secret: when you were with her, she focussed on you like you were the only person in the club.

That's the "IT" factor for me, that the MPA appear at least like she's into me for our time together, and not be staring at herself in the mirror or have her head in the clouds.

I don't think you can fight chemistry, sometimes it happens, and it's great, sometimes it doesn't and you get an average session. MOst of all it's about personal attention and making someone feel special.

That goes for clients as well. I make sure I respect my Attendant, and say complimentary things. It is a 2 way street after all.

 

[DAT DUDE OUTTA BK]

For me, thinking about three different ladies that would qualify under the descriptors above, it really is a package of things: a genuine like of each other as people, real interest in what we are both having going on in our lives, giving advice back and forth about individual life issues and an unpredictable great time together whenever I graced her / their table each and every time, no matter if it is the 10th visit or the 100th.

 

[Tee Tee]

For a first time experience with a girl...it is the personal connection we make. Is the conversation good Are the questions asked and answers given, not by rote but with genuine thoughtfulness. This "oral" part of sex...is important to me. One of my recent great experiences was with a new, to me, lady...that after all was done and we were dressed...we ended up sitting chatting about politics and the economy. Call it "kinky" if you like, but this was an intellectual connection that topped a great experience and made it memorable!
A second factor that creates the "it" experience is the unexpected; the kiss, that lingers, that grows passionate; the hug that conveys contentment with a closeness; an unexpected offering of "extra" services that seems to generate from a desire rather than as part of a package of services.
These rare experiences keep me coming back...to see friends rather than just a service provider.
It is the IT that I seek...and when I find IT...I am a happy camper and a repeat client

 

[Spraynard Kruger]

If they looked decent , had a nice personality and you can make them really really wet........

Ok that was a bit blunt but what it means they have to let you know in some fashion that they are having fun too and con you into thinking that your appointment will likely be a welcome break from all the other mopes that they have to put up with.

 

[X me Out]

for a second I thought IT = Invisible Touch, shows how long I have been on this board

 

[Pompal 09.]

hahaha sorry baby....no IT for you....I totally cock-teased you didnt I....you can punish me for that

 

[sammyy772]

The top "IT" girls I've come across (alphabetical order)

Amber @ IT/SRM/HFH/Allure
Alexis/Madisson @ IT/HFH/Allure
Cameron @ HFH
Crystal @ B&S/S9/Utopia/Independent
Jade @ SRM
Jennifer @ HFH/Platinum
Sydney/Sande @ AC/B&S/Utopia
Tarah @ HFH/Silhouette/BP/Platinum/HFH

They all have looks but so do others. Some are tall and slim, some curvvy some blondes and some brunettes. The IT factor is different in each case. Some are just fun and playful, others are just the sweetest things you every met, and others are sensual beyond belief. The BS is fun but it was those little extra moments of connection (usually in the conversation after the session or even before giving updates from the last time) that set them apart. I remember times right after the MPA walked into the room and before the session even got started I was getting updates on what happened in their lives in the last few weeks.

Looks aren't enough and neither is mileage. Personality will keep us coming back for more and will get an MPA much more repeat business than that next superhot 20 year old that walks in the door.

 

[itsme6922]

Here Here!!!!!!!

 

[krazykhrystyne]

A down to earth personality and the ability to engage in a coversation is the IT factor for me

 

[seamstress]

For me there is only one, not a list of many. Michelle @ Plush. Every time I have a session with her it just feels like two friends getting together for some naked fun.

 

[Proffesor Jelskraft]

MPAsquared, you use too many exclamation points.