to fake or not to fake?

[Geoff The Phantom Skier]

As much as I want to get my rocks off I am also concerned with the happiness of my mpa. I believe that I am a gentleman (most of the time). I had the oddest experience recently where an mpa at Oasis actually offered to return some of my money if I stopped touching her - which equates to her paying ME. I am not aggressive but she complained that all the rubbing down there hurts day after day. Why is she even mpa? She even insulted me by pointing out that if she liked to be touched she would do it for free! Then she asked me why did I think that the prices got higher for more touching? Her answer - because she hates it so much and if she undergoes any abuse, I would have to pay top dollar.

So obviously my troops retreated at that point, and any further enjoyment with her was futile. She was very sweet up until the incident so I figured that maybe she had a bad client that day or whatever so I took pity on her and agreed to just talk for the rest of the session. She told me that if I just lay back and let her massage me that I would have a good time. Yah, I've heard that one before. So I let her do her thing and she actually seemed to enjoy the rest of our session - she's a definate giver, not receiver. Now on top of being paranoid to the point that I've cut out pussy sliding, I can't even touch a girl without thinking that she must hate it. But I can't help myself...

Come to think of it, I can't remember if I've ever had an mpa actually take my hand and initiate some rubbing. But I've had plenty of them try to reposition thier body sneakily or bluntly move my hand away. Any a recommendations on girls who want this kind of attention and could possibly cum from it? Or do they all fake it and curse us under thier breath? I feel that if I'm paying I sould think about what I want, not the girl. But the whole experience feels better when the girl at least appears to be enjoying herself. Why are all females so excruciatingly complicated?

 

[KELLi]

Call me cynical but I think that most women in the business do not enjoy strange men touching them. I for one do not offer to do anything and I don't want to do anything.
I'm there to be pampered and I just want to lie there and just relax (smoking a joint before the session may push me into a more chillin frame of mind).
Sometimes when a girl asks me to massage her I usually just say no and say that I'm a slacker and don't like to work.
I have been asked (maybe in total three or four times) to rub an MPA in the spot but thats been like less that five percent of the whole time I have been visiting massage parlours.
Asked to by an MPA to something specifc other than "rubbing" such as squeezing her tits or slapping her ass; the ratio is a lot higher, maybe twenty or twenty five percent.

I think if you really want to please a girl, you're gonna have to find an MPA who likes to pleased on the spot with any man or you're gonna have to find an MPA and develop some sort of intimate understanding where she will eventually let you pleasure her (obviously that's going to take a few sessions).

Other than that, don't worry about pleasing your MPA, sit back and relax and enjoy the show!!! Works for me!!!

And as for pleasing a woman, there's always your wife ... hornymarriedguy!!!

 

[Ed34]

Holly shit hornymarriedguy, an you not take a fucking hint!!!
Let the girl take the lead. There are many things an mpa will do to let you know she wants to be touched down there. I find most mpa's will let me but I almost never try to get them off unless they show they really want to. I think you would be sore too if someone tried to jerk you off every 1/2 hr.
If you treat them with respect and don't push their boundaries you'll have a much better time.
If getting a girl off is your goal you should probably be going the a SP.
I go to MP's to be pampered. If they expect me to get them off they can give me 1/2 my money back. With the right MPA it can be fun though.

 

[phat_face1989]

For me, rule of thumb, don't go for the touch from the start. No matter if its an MPA or Stripper. You just gently caresse the legs, arms and etc. Let them lead you. 90% of the time the Stripper or the MPA has taken my hand or gently directed me and allowed me to touch. If they don't, that fine, you can still have your fun.

It depends on what you go looking for, and the type of person you are. But I do know that these girls hate the aggressive types that immediately go for the money maker from the get go.

 

[awesome!]

Nothing complicated here: If you are giving her pleasure, she's hardly likely to stop you, except if you haven't paid the tariff. Your motivation may be admirable, horny, but whether your execution matches it is entirely for her to assess.
Most folks would assume that your payment—as the MPA said—is buying a reaction that appears positive even when her experience isn't. If you want the genuine article, maybe deal with a regular who you can convince you, then pay careful attention to what she actually enjoys. Meantime, she's the pro; let her show her skills (fakery being one of them) and direct you.

 

[Pompal 09.]

All MPA's have different rules and I think the customer needs to respect those rules. The girl should be laying out the ground rules at the beginning of the session so then you can make your decision if you would like to stay. It is very true that MPA's have numerous clients everyday and if every client tries to touch her to much this area will become irritated. This is a job for us we do it to make money.......not because we necessarily like it. This is a service you pay for and if you don't like it then just don't go back next time but respect the girl atleast until the session is done.

 

[venky]

Wow, all the support here seems in favour of the mpa - which is fantastic, but in my experience every single client goes straight for my crotch and couldn't give a damn whether I like it or not. Please, all of you "lay back and blow my mind" clients - come hither!!! I believe that my level of customer service where I am doing the giving is ultra high as I aim to please. But my body is precious and I don't appreciate being grabbed.

Of course I have dear regulars where we both communicate our likes and dislikes and all goes well during the session, but I have had many bad experiences where I told the client repeatedly that I don't like something and they kept trying. Worse case scenerio was when I told someone that I didn't like what they were doing and he looked me straight in the eye and said "I know" and kept doing it. I know two wrongs don't make a right but I really wanted to shove an oily finger up his nose...

 

[WILNA S]

I don't mean to toot my own horn, but I consider myself a pretty good 'masseuse'. I’ve been told as such by the numerous ladies I’ve been with and I consider them ‘experts’ as they’ve received many of them whether good or bad. I’m not surprised when a MPA tells me that she appreciates that I didn’t “go to the gap

 

[flower2008]

There was this place at EBC beside the dentist office, now closed

and one night a Korean MPA, after our session was done and I

was massaging her back, started to purr and I continued for

20 minutes. She gave me back $50 bucks as a tip after!!!!

She really enjoyed receiving, also she said that it was her last

week, as she was graduating from George Brown as some sort

of technician.

 

[Regina George]

horny:

Here are some other possibilities:

1. you might be touching them without first ascertaining whether or not they might like it. It is always better to ask first.

2. you may be too abrupt. You have to start from a less sensitive area and work your way towards it.

3. you could be too rough, applying too much pressure, moving too fast from the start instead of building up to it.

4. you may have rough skin/calluses or an irritating chemical on your hands.

5. Maybe you aren't seeing the right MPA, see thread below:

http://www.massageplanet.net.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=73084

 

[madonna_toller]

I too have been told I give a nice massage. Mind you I don't believe it for a minute. I do ask my lady what kind of massage she prefers. If you start the conversation in this direction the lady may let you know what she enjoys. If she has her legs closed tighter than an elevator door, she probably doesn't want you exploring that region. If her feet are behind her head, that may be a subtle hint that exploration is an option.

 

[FireElementNinja]

How about return the favor, yank his weiner or jewels, that will get any ass to wise up. If that doesn't work, a knee in the jewels. Otherwise, the heels on toes are always attention grabber.

Don't worry, if guys like that try to post a bad review about you, Goodtime will come to your aid, as no means NO. No MPA should be subject to such treatment.

 

[YANGA CHIVAS MEXICO]

It's Goodtime to the rescue! The reason I mentioned the finger in the nose, was that I believe the punishment should fit the crime in order to really connect the two in the brain. Smacking someone will only make them think you're a (female dog) but a finger in the nose may show a guy that fingers don't feel so good where they don't belong. Trust me, I've already thought of the bum, but I'm sure the guy would love it which defeats the whole purpose!!!

Everyone on here is right - communication is key.

 

[TruthTeller]

Hornymarried guy,

Stop going to Crappy joints like Bluelagoon and try places like Allure, Srm ,It or Hfh.They have got all the top notch girls and most of them like their jobs.

 

[mzjilly]

Don't want to reward the bad behaviours. By ass, I was referring to Donkey. I'm sure you'll get their attention with your method, oil pls and long nails... Then there is always smacking both ears for the wake-up call. Ring my bell...my bell...

 

[Aye Jae]

If only it were that simple! Unfortunately, there are some individuals who somehow have their brains connected through some kind of nerve connection to their anal orfices, and need a serious operation to severe that nerve. They 'forget' that MPAs are feeling human beings that deserve respect and admiration. Fortunately, we in teh massageplanet.net community, I would like to believe, are all gentlemen (gentle people) with our MPAs.

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