Trouble Finishing?

[sweetsinger]

I recently had my first session at a MP with a very cute girl who was just my type. Everything was going well but I couldn't finish and ran out of time (45 min. session). Thought it might have been her technique which was a little fast. Had fun anyway. I have always had alot of stamina and could literally go for hours and it usually takes a while to finish, with a woman or by myself.
So the next week I book a hour session (that should be enough time) with one of the superstar MPA's. Things were going really well but I was a little nervous given this womens reputation on this board. This time more than half way through my session things went soft and would not longer salute.
My question is, did anyone else have trouble finishing when you started visiting MP's?
I have an appointment booked for this weekend and am afraid this might happen again. Being nervous about it happening again may contribulte to another unhappy ending.
I am still young and have never had trouble like this before but, I am a very shy person which restricts my dating life and have not been with a girl in a long time. Should I just give it time to be relaxed and comfortable with my newfound hobby? Would the girl be angry if I told her how to do things?

Your experiences and suggestions would be greatly appreciated.

 

[ZEPPELIN OF LED]

Just stop drinking so much before the sessions. Ever since I cut down to one bottle of 375 ml bottle of Absolut, from one Bottle of 375 ml Absolut and a 6 pack of Kokanne. Since making this adjustment, I have gotten my shooting game back to where it should be.

 

[charlie murphy]

LapLucky,

That is just rusty's odd but funny sense of humour.

If you are nervous I would suggest you tell the MPA. If you are going to one of the highly rated MPAs you will find that you are not the first nervous client they have ever seen. Also there are variances in the ladies levels of eroticism. You may want to look for a lady that really knows her game and stick with her for a few visits until you become more comfortable with her.

But first and foremost, tell her you are very nervous and she should be able to help. Also don't forget to have fun!

gypsy

 

[hgolden]

"You may want to look for a lady that really knows her game and stick with her for a few visits until you become more comfortable with her. "

That's probably a good idea. I wanted to go see different MPA's until I felt more comfortable in these situations and my problem was solved before I went back and saw either of the first two girls. That way I wouldn't feel completely stupid and "less a man".
I'm not like alot of guys who can and will do anything with tits. I require more intimacy. It even takes me a while to warm up to a new girlfriend and be comfortable with her in these types of situations. Being on the clock really puts the pressure on too.
I wonder if I should come clean (no pun intended) about my problem with my next MPA. That my take some pressure off both of us.

 

[jordan g]

My daily regiment, almost exactly! In addition, I don't eat anything that day - it really makes me randy and the drinks really pump me up on an empty stomach!

Plus, I bring along two small glasses and a small bottle of Grand Marnier for the lady. It's a great panty-remover! Gets the juices flowing!!!! Mmmm.....

Al Cohol

 

[Marissa Likeeee]

This happened to me once when I was really really cold ( Little refused to come out and play LOL) ..... the spa was near the Pro and apparently they didn't pay their heating bill (the shower created a fog in the room). Try getting a shower massage, Little Tito used to LOVE those so much (I haven't had one in almost 2 years)!!!!!

Tito "Next Big Thing ...... unless its cold" Santana

 

[blueberry89]

I had problems blowing my whistle before the whistle blew, when I first started going to MP's. It seems I've got it down to a fine art now ... he he .. seriously, I think it takes time to get accustomed to the whole experience.

I also had this one MPA, who I couldn't last more than a few seconds. It was insane. I tried everything, but nothing worked.
( until I found 'numb and cum' ) I gave up eventually, but would love to try again now. I hate defeat.

As previously mentioned, you may want to save yourself for that special MPA. I know we love ourselves's so much, it's hard to resist temptation. Positive affirmation is good, but it may be worth saving your self for when the time is "right".

eeer ... what d'ya mean, Rustys joking ?

 

[Jen x]

eeer ... what d'ya mean, Rusty's joking ?

 

[Strawberry Julius]

eeer ... what d'ya mean, Rustys joking ?

 

[Erica Ewen]

Seriously,

That's what I really do before each session.

 

[fabiolapistola]

Don't smoke anymore! It ruins your sex drive. Just relax and enjoy the session! We all need it and the women love to pamper us. Just tell her in a nice way how you like it and she will be glad to make you more comfortable.

 

[Brain Testing]

This is my sure thing.
Before your session visit a sc and watch the stage show for a while. Don't drink too much. Pick a lady you really like and have a few lap dances and then, in your heightened state of "awareness", go to your appointment. Tell the lady what drives you crazy and hope she is ok with it.
I have also found that the drop dead gorgeous ladies are used to guys loosing it just by looking at them and they sometimes are a little impatient when you don't do the same. The less stellar ladies rely more on technique and they have learned to respond to their clients. Of course there are lots of exceptions on both sides.
In my experience nothing can be done about being nervous. For me it starts when I get out of the car and walk to the door. I picture everyone staring at me and saying "We know where you're going".

 

[SK_Serpent]

You must be the first guy the I've heard say it was a problem to keep it stiff for 45 min and not shoot your load.

Most of us would KILL to be able to do that.

To assist you in your quest, what you can do is ask the lady to do the deed exactly the way that feels best to you.

I come right out and say could you please do this and this or this way. The lovely ladies will immediately accomodate you.

If that still doesn't get you across start clenching and unclenching you kegel muscles. This will indirectly massage your prostate and should have you done in no time.

If you don't know how to clench these muscles, it is similar to what you do when you stop a stream of urine. Try practicing that, ie when going to the bathroom stop the flow several times just to get a feel of the muscles in involved. Then during the session do the same thing. It works wonders.

Interestingly enough, this same excersize will prevent early emmision as well. But in this case you excersize throughout the day and avoid clenching when you want to hold back.

If that doesn't work either all I can suggest is a direct prostate massage a la "Tom Green" .

Enjoy!