? When to expect more from a MPA

[Florida Orange Juice]

What is the right time to expect more from a mpa.
I always try to develop a friendship but if after 5 times it is not getting to a gfe thing then I think it is time to move on. I usually say what I require to return and give it some comfort time.
What do the rest of you think. If it is not what you expect by 5 visits it isn't going to happen.

 

[Shenanigans]

I think your approach is all wrong. An ultimatum is never going to work. Especially if your visiting a premier spa and paying what you ought to be paying for good service and yummy eye-Candy. What I mean by a premier spa is one of the following and others in that same class (IT, Allure, Steeles-Royal, HFH, Body and Soul). What I mean by paying is that you choose a higher-end option.

Girls that provide GFE service - don't require your company or your money. They are ALREADY very busy. Unless you happen to uncover that gem, but if you visit 5 whole times??? I am sure if she had that magic we would have heard of her here.

I don't know what you "require in return" or how you define a GFE but perhaps your expectations are higher than mine or unrealistic.

Happy Hobbying

- Hex

 

[5th Horseman]

booblicker68

No offence, but I can't think of any scenario where giving an ultimatum will benefit. If anything, I would think it would only do the reverse. After trying to build a friendship, it would be kind of counter productive.

I think you can get a good feel as to whether or not things will progress, upon a first visit, and if you click, I'd say that at around three visits would be a good guideline, to judge, as to whether you feel future visits are in line, or not. I wouldn't set any restrictions, as to a certain number though, as there are just way too many variables.

One of the problems is, that you can develop a level of chemistry which may precede the fact that, in essence, it is a business transaction. This creates a kind of grey area where the expectations of the client and provider can become blurred. In essence you are paying for their time and if you are not satisfied with what you get out of that time, then you have to ask if the money is well spent or not. I don't think some mpa's are aware that what some of us pay them for an hour can, in fact, be a large percentage of our total income. Basically it boils down to having a choice. You have the choice not to continue and they have the choice not to bend to meet your needs.

What am I blabbering about ?

If you are expecting her to go beyond the limits that you know to be available, it is probably unreasonable, although it does happen, on occasion. If you are not getting what you know to be possible then after five visits, I'd say, it's probably unlikely that you will ..

I'm not sure how satisfying it would be, if , in fact, they met your requirements under the condition that you only return if they do, but we all have different needs and definitions as to what a GFE is. For me, at least, I don't think there is one ultimate definition.

If you walk away with a smile on your face and a feeling of content, with no thought of the money you just spent and forget where you live, that is a GFE ...

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Treat Em wiv Respect Boyz ...

 

[matthewfein]

Wow. Did you ever read this wrong. I am talking about the norm not FS. I didn't mean demand I was only looking for some imput should I expect the relationship to have matured in 5 visits or does it take more.
I have never demanded anything from a woman in my entire life and don't expect to start now.

 

[Maikeru]

Who said anything about FS or demanding ? I wasn't thinking of anything specific in my reply. It could even be the very basics. It was a general reference to getting more than you are already getting.

You appeared to be putting an ultimatum on the situation and leaving it up to the girls discretion. That is entirely different from making a demand.

Why do I even have to explain this ? ... Your question could, and can not, possibly, be answered with just a yes or a no type answer.

 

[<3!]

I don't really expect mileage to increase much by repeating. in my limited experience if things aren't allowed in the first visit their not going to be allowed later either. granted I've only repeated with a few MPA's but it's still a good expectation to have, no dissapointment when things never get added.

 

[STEVEN F]

I'm note sure what you mean by comfort time. But this does sound somewhat like an ultimatum or demand, in that you are putting pressure on her to do what she may not want to, or lose you as a client. Definitley the wrong approach to take IMO. You probably won't sway to many with that approach. At least I hope not.