lipstick lesbians? I came out of a long term relationship about 6 months ago because when i met my gf we were both dating men but the attraction and connection was so strong we began dating (after finishing it with the men) I was 16 she was 23 but after 4 years she has decided that she thinks she is straight and i did not want her to be unhappy, i on the other hand identify as a lesbian but i am extremely feminine i am sure i was born in heels and an LBD ha! Anyway i really struggle to find other 'lipstick lesbians' even on the gay scene and if they are there i miss them because we spend the entire night not wanting to introduce ourselves in case the other isn't actually gay it's so hard!!! HELP!!!!