Good, clear, straight thinking MrHappy. It is interesting to me that someone who posts here would have issues with a male (that is perceived to be masculine by virtue of their physique) living and working in a country that is famous for it's LadyBOYS! Who are we trying to kid here? Is the primary tourism that comes from all over the world to visit Ladyboy bars in Phuket WOMEN looking for ultra-feminine men, or men looking for a girl (some of which also happen to have a penis? I happen to be straight, but I am also fascinated by the phenomenon that is the Ladyboy......especially one who happens to be in very good physical condition.....as opposed to the vast majority of others that are painfully thin. Witnee happens to be unique among LadyBOYS. Vive la difference...............