For the life of me, I can not understand why women who hate men would choose to work as MPAs. I had a similar bad experience years ago with this white (Canadian) MPA. I was lying face down on the massage table and she was massaging me, wearing a mini-skirt, high heels and a low-cut blouse showing off her cleavage. I reached over and gently placed one hand on her ass. She yelled at me: "that's assault!". WTF? I lost my erection right away and I actually got scared that this crazy bitch might call the police and say that I "sexually assaulted" her, so I had to play it cool, be politically correct and apologize to her, saying that I was sorry, it's just that touching was allowed at any other spa that I've ever been to. She accepted the apology and then lectured me about how I have to "respect women" and always ask before touching and that if they say no, then no means no, etc, etc. She did give me a HJ in the end but I was glad to be out of there and since then, I only go to Asian spas. Asian MPAs are the best. Most will let your hand roam freely during the massage (I am NOT talking about putting my finger in, NOT even putting my hand down their pants or skirt, just a little gentle touching or very gentle squeezing of their ass through their clothes). They are good at business and they know that it is in their best interest to keep the client happy, so that he will be more likely to buy some "extras" at the end of the massage. The only "negative" response I've had at Asian spas was that if the MPA really did not want to be touched while giving a massage, she would just gently take my hand and move it away, or she would just move her body away for a second thus indicating her desire not to be touched or she would just say "sorry, touching is extra". I fully respect women (they are our mothers, daughters and sisters) and have no problem with an MPA not wanting to be touched and I fully respect their limits. As a matter of fact, I have been to several "legit" spas where even my request for a HJ was denied, even when I offered to pay extra. NO problem, I did not make a fuss, I can respect anybody's limits. I do however have a problem with MPAs who go into this profession just to cut guys' balls off. Men like us go to a MP to relax, unwind, be touched and pampered by a friendly and caring MPA and get a nice HJ or BS. We pay good money for this and as long as we ourselves are polite and respectful, we deserve to be treated like a king. We certainly do NOT deserve to be yelled at or humiliated or lectured or otherwise treated rudely. MPAs who do this and the MPs who employ these MPAs will not stay in business for long.