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Not sure as there is no common or standard terminology. “Liberal” I guess.

Of perhaps the term " GFE " ?

 

[Lalallala]

Of perhaps the term " GFE " ?

That term has lost its meaning too..

 

[Jumpin’ Jack Flash]

Not sure as there is no common or standard terminology. “Liberal” I guess.

Then yer getting into byelaggio territory where the losers line up to get DFK from a girl that won’t at least not with any dick walking on the door waving $$$

 

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That term has lost its meaning too..

Completely agree ! ... too many owner/bosses using that acronym and others to lure clients into their spa ... lol

 

[Lalallala]

Completely agree ! ... too many owner/bosses using that acronym and others to lure clients into their spa ... lol

I just prefer to know what limits a girl has (if any) so that I can respect them.

 

[Jumpin’ Jack Flash]

I just prefer to know what limits a girl has (if any) so that I can respect them.

Then again that can change I either direction. It would hurt one’s ego if it’s in the southern direction.

 

[Lalallala]

Then again that can change I either direction. It would hurt one’s ego if it’s in the southern direction.

Haha I guess. I am ok if I don’t get the same mileage as others, but there’s a couple of things I need for a repeat and if I don’t get them then no repeat for me.

 

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I just prefer to know what limits a girl has (if any) so that I can respect them.

Good point, .. however some MPA's have different limits with different clients... they might feel more comfortable with one guy over the next, also service/limits can differ between beggining of shift vs the last 2-3 hrs..

It certainly not a perfect science

 

[Lalallala]

Good point, .. however some MPA's have different limits with different clients... they might feel more comfortable with one guy over the next, also service/limits can differ between beggining of shift vs the last 2-3 hrs..

It certainly not a perfect science

Well I just want to know the absolute limits. I am ok with accepting a lower limit.

 

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All this discussion makes me want to go for a massage ... lol

 

[Hornet]

Of perhaps the term " GFE " ?

Possibly but I’ve heard people use GFE to imply a sensual BS/PS and even a BJ.

My point is there is no consistency which makes the terminology rather meaningless.

 

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no consistency which makes the terminology rather meaningless.

100% agree !

 

[OG_funguy]

I feel the same way. If I write a review on a girl I try not to be too explicit while still getting to the point. I try to always caveat my reviews with ‘I’m not a mileage seeker’ and know where to go if that is what I want. So, generally a BS/PS/DATY is the max mileage I’m seeking and often I can be satisfied with less mileage if the massage is excellent. But even then I still get the DM’s asking if BJ and FS is on the table and I’m my reaction is like “WTF, did you not even read what I wrote”. Now, I don’t respond that way and am more polite, I just say “no, she has her limits”. What pisses me off is when they respond right back asking “if she’d be open to it if the money was good”. Like “WTF”, stop harassing the girls.

It's a fine line, you want to at least give some details because if it's too generic, then it's not that useful. But I agree, you shouldn't be too explicit with semi girls unless their service has been discussed so many times on the forums already that it's common knowledge what they offer...

 

[Johnjoebowler]

I like to know if a girl wants to limit things then I won’t try to get her to do what she doesn’t want to do, or inadvertently make her uncomfortable. Like last night I accidentally ended up with a very low mileage girl - I knew she was low mileage and didn’t press for anything; she still gave me a great massage and conversation so I tipped her better than she had expected. Aside from the unplanned session, I think we both enjoyed the time.

If a girl offers all that, I'm not interested in that girl.
Very simple for me.

If a few get it and I'm in elite company then ok but if its on the menu, I'm not hungry.

 

[Jumpin’ Jack Flash]

Haha....how about 'can I see you today'?

You Casanova you!

 

[luvdafurburger]

I think we do need some standard terminology or rating. There used to be a time when “open” and “liberal” meant a BJ or FS was on the table. This was in a bodyrub setting. In a semi-legit setting “open” seems to imply a PS/DATY is on the table but not necessarily means BJ or FS and “liberal” means a BS.

I think anyone that considers themselves an experienced Hobbyist doesn't really need specifics broadcasted.

It's pretty simple what to expect:
Legit spas are zero mileage
Holistic spas are unlimited mileage
Semis are ymmv.

The problem lies when some girls stretch limits (coming from holistic spas) and when guys want to think they're Casanova and push beyond what limits she may have so they can brag like adolescent boys aka Krayjee.

Reality check: no money=no attention.

We all like to push limits a bit, but the priority should be respect. So pushing a girl's boundaries physically when she's not interested is just creepy. And I know some guys will disagree, but part of the respect comes with when reviewing a semi girl, sometimes it's best for her and even the reviewer to shut the fuck up about any extras beyond what is the bare minimum commonly given. There's a reason a lot of girls hate reviews.

If guys can't read between the lines a bit then they shouldn't expect to be spoon fed.

It's YMMV just like the rest of things in life. Bring the A game and get what you get.

 

[Lalallala]

I think anyone that considers themselves an experienced Hobbyist doesn't really need specifics broadcasted.

It's pretty simple what to expect:
Legit spas are zero mileage
Holistic spas are unlimited mileage
Semis are ymmv.

The problem lies when some girls stretch limits (coming from holistic spas) and when guys want to think they're Casanova and push beyond what limits she may have so they can brag like adolescent boys aka Krayjee.

Reality check: no money=no attention.

We all like to push limits a bit, but the priority should be respect. So pushing a girl's boundaries physically when she's not interested is just creepy. And I know some guys will disagree, but part of the respect comes with when reviewing a semi girl, sometimes it's best for her and even the reviewer to shut the fuck up about any extras beyond what is the bare minimum commonly given. There's a reason a lot of girls hate reviews.

If guys can't read between the lines a bit then they shouldn't expect to be spoon fed.

It's YMMV just like the rest of things in life. Bring the A game and get what you get.

That’s the worse thing about Bellagio - XTC constantly egging guys on to push a girl’s limits.

Ffs that is just creepy.

 

[Lalallala]

Ffs. Some a-hole just went through some of my comments and made demands of a girl, clearly not understanding YMMV. Had to go back and make edits. Why are these guys such idiots?