All I am saying is that there may be plausible deniability. Regardless, this crap is all a distraction of actually making the area a better environment for the girls, and also the customers. I'm not sure why you happen to get all this drama where it's not surfacing anywhere else - perhaps it's happening elsewhere too but they aren't saying anything. But even if that is the case, this really isn't the best way of handling it. You are far too easily triggered and quick to get angry. Some anger management counselling wouldn't hurt.
As for problematic customers, it boggles my mind that there's no blacklist that's circulated between the different owners. Is there a blacklist and we don't know about it?
The new year is almost upon us. It's not a bad time for a reset and figure out how to work together better.