Okay now here's where it might get a little bit interesting. I now realize I should have made this clear and this might change your entire view of everything you just said. And if you call bullshit I do not know how to prove it to you that this is true so if you do.... I'm sorry I just hope other people have a little more trust in the fact that not all people think alike and some are stranger than others and some are absolutely fucking crazy(in a good way). So let's begin...
My boyfriend and I started dating about 3 years ago and I began dating him because he agreed to fuck my best (girl) friend and I. (I already liked him but I broke up with my past 2 bf's because they wouldn't want threesomes because they 'loved me too much to do that to me' ...lame) I need someone who's as kinky as I am and it turned out that was him :').
So anyway after countless threesomes with all of my sexy girl friends, a few couple swaps and an experimental threesome with a guy and us becoming webcam models.....I got in this job because I was working receptionist and I thought why not make money for easy work as well as something I believe in(the sex industry and the societal normalization of it, sex positivity, etc, etc)
After a while, my bf started being more open about the fact that he enjoys seeing me with guys(probably not as wet as it makes me to see him with another girl but definitely enjoys it...a lot lol) and then suddenly the idea of me being an attendant made sense and he politely asked if I was single, would I do it? I said obviously.... the money is worthwhile, I can study while at work(win, win) and I don't think there's anything wrong with it so why not? He said he agreed and that's why he told me, if I wanted too, he would support me in the transition to attendant(in fact he said the idea turned him on.... the sick fuck lol) with just the rule of no fs, as that would make him uncomfortable so I stick to the rule and everyone's happy.
When I said he's coming in for a duo with Mariah and I but he doesn't know it, I mean he thinks I've booked a session for him with Mariah, (while I'm working of course so I could pay for the session and he better bring me chicken nuggets or I swear to god...) and after about 10 minutes I plan on surprising him and walking in and finishing the session, the three of us.
Now before you get any ideas..... my bf is not my sugar daddy nor am I his sugar momma. I'm 19, he's 22. We frequent sex clubs, go to sex resorts (hedonism in Jamaica if you haven't heard of it....google!!) and are very sex/body positive people. I have been doing this job for a few months now and with his money and my money we are now able to afford a nice condo in downtown Toronto(owning a property at this age is pretty decent, no?), he enjoys the stories about my job, sometimes when I'm stroking him off I'll tell him about everything I did at work and it turns him the fuck on. So no, I don't think I'm taking advantage of him and neither does he. We are both mature enough to understand this is just a job and a good one at that while I'm young and still in school...so where else would I work? Be depressed and work hard OR get to study in all my free time at work doing a job I enjoy and my boyfriend benefits from as well as makes him horny??
And don't now say I'm manipulating men because I make it very clear that no matter how good of a session we had and how much I geneuienly enjoyed it, this is a job for me and nothing more. I don't make fake relationships and if I ever mention I have a bf I make sure to point out that it's an open relationship and I am not cheating. Unless you're so close minded to think that if the two parties involved in the relationship agree something is not a betrayal still is because society might say so...then oh well as I said I am not here to market my way into your heart.
I'm here because I like to read and comment back to the threads as I find it amusing and I genuinely have fun. BUT promoting myself is definitely a bonus, I just won't pretend to be someone I'm not to try and get clients because I'd rather attract like minded people as I know we'll have more of worthwhile session. Plussss there are many clients who love to hear stories(I know from personal experiences lol) and I have stories and photos galore of the most sexy crazy things (mainly sex parties of all my girlfriends, my bf and one or two of his friends of my friends choosing... strip beer pong, strip twister.... you get the drift) and more(like how they all ended in a girl or two would sleepover with me and my bf and we'd have a whole night of fun
), so that in itself is a rare gift of mine and you or I never know, someone might like me more now just for that.
Sorry. Rant over