Blonde Extras Jodi on BGFE

[Good Bye Everyone !]

Lol.. Ill write about my good experience this week as soon as the brat gives me a little elbow space here...always behind me... lurking lol.
Muahhhhh love you guys!

 

[ra2shadow]

Damn Jodi...Things are getting risky for you lately. I'm getting worried about you. I hope things ease up. too much drama. What happened to the good times?

 

[The Benchwarmer]

There is a book called, "The Gift of Fear" by Gavin deBecker, one of the country's foremost security experts, that says exactly what Jodi said, that you should ALWAYS pay attention when your intuition says you are not in a safe situation.

 

[Lunatica]

I think that we are all guilty of not listening to ourselves sometimes .... easier said than done..... Im always guilty of that. At least when you felt that feeling, it put you on guard.... or else we might be watching you in action on YouPorn or something...... good job Jodi !!!

 

[MilitaryPolicemen]

Wow what a creepy jerk! Glad to hear you're still ok!

 

[Lotamel]

So the guy I saw gave me a feeling on the phone but I couldnt place it.
I should always follow my instinct.
I knew something was weird about him ... probably mentally a little off.
I told him to call right before the appointment and the phone started ringing at 3:05 instead of of right before 3:30. The brat had just walked in the door so I wasnt about to answer it as she was getting ready for the gym. The guy kept calling over and over and she was getting mad and asking why I wasnt answering it. Now I specifically told him not before 3:30 because the kid gets out of school at 3. He didnt listen though.
Finally about 3:15 she leaves and I get a message from him saying he didnt know why I wasnt picking up, he was here, blah blah blah.
I called him back and he was on the corner and seemed slightly annoyed and I reminded him the appointment was at 3:30, not 3 pm.
I told him just to come then because I was free since the brat left.
When he walked in, I was immediately uneasy. Its kind of the way I felt the night I was robbed but not so threatened... I just felt like..something wasnt right.
Just like my mother and grandmother, I have an excellent sense of impending danger or "feelings".
He was really really polite but I still felt he wasnt really the person he was pretending to be.
He kept looking at me in a strange way... it was almost a look that says, "Im hiding something".
He was too polite and too quiet. He took his phone and placed it strategically on my refridgerator and said, "Ill just put this over here".
I noticed he placed it in a way that the camera was facing the massage table and I realized he was taping me.
So I took at small towel and placed it over the phone while he was face down.
He thought he was smart but fortunately I was smarter.
He was silent during most of the massage and then I started asking him about his life. He gave me a story about marrying an asian girl and I realized it was probably just that... a story. The anger I heard coming from him, hidden anger, tells another story than the one he told.
He also told me that he was the guy who called me last year and I wouldnt see him because he had a few freaky requests. Not really freaky but things I dont DO. Not that there was anything wrong with his requests, but I told him I was too vanilla for him. I asked him why he tricked me and came anyways a year later and he said because he wanted to try my massage and that I lived up to what people said....however, during the ending he kept sighing lol and acted so obviously bored and disconted that I actually asked him what was wrong because it was ridiculously obvious. He hymned and hawed and said very uncertainly... "no everythings fine I guess" and he kind of snickered as he said it.
He was basically letting me know that I bored the SHIT out of him but he wanted to finish. We were already past the hour at this point of course with no end in sight. His dick didnt have a wonderful odor which indicates to me that he probably had a trichonoma or bacterial infection so I didnt want to put my mouth there.
I told him I had to finish up and I was going to give it another couple of minutes at which point he immediately came. So he was actually holding back I think, not as bored as he pretended to be.
I told him at that point that I was sorry he wasnt happy and I said, "Look when I told you the first time that I wasnt the one for you on the phone, you should have listened. I know when someone is not going to enjoy their time with me. Im sorry you didnt enjoy yourself but I really tried."
He just sat there looking at me with this odd look on his face. I cleaned him up and since we were already 75 minutes into a 60 minute session I thought he would get up and get dressed but he wasnt budging.
I got dressed and finally he did too....but when he stood up and saw the towel over his little camera he got a very suprised look on his face and I felt a great satisfaction at that.
I figured he probably wouldnt pay me but he silently stuck the donation under my clock when he thought I wasnt looking...it was like he wanted me to look around and ask for it. He had this little smile on his face, god it was so fucking creepy and he kept trying to catch my eye but I wouldnt even look at him.
He left then.
I was literally shaking during the whole massage with my heart in my throat. I KNEW something wasnt right with him and now see on the board that he actually has girls working FOR HIM.
Why he came to see me I do not know but I will never ever see someone who tried to tape me again. My instinct told me something was wrong and Ill listen to it from now on. I actually started to say to him during the bodyrub that I wasnt going to continue and for him to get dressed and leave but I had already worked too hard for 45 minutes at that point.
Anyways, thats the first really bad session I have had and I hope to god its the last!

 

[hairstylist1970]

I imagine that it would be a pain to lug around a table and supplies from place to place. Besides, I agree, I wouldnt want to go to one of those roach motels... ugh.

 

[*LovelyMe*]

We tried to get her into afterschool program but they werent returning our calls. Today at the parent/teacher conferences I not only had my eyes opened about my little liar, I realized things could have been easier after I heard about programs.
We may do that Ymca or the after school program she has here. It will make things much easier for both of us. I checked out some cheap hotels but they are so disgusting... so full of bed bugs and mold and what not, I could not ever take my clients there.
It will work out soon..... she is moving near me gotta cut out lol.

 

[Lani]

Jodi,

Am I missing something?

With a little hunting, it's not hard to find Manhattan hotels where you can get a room for $99 - $150 and use it as an incall for the day, while leaving the little one safe at home. Lots of providers do it. You might make a little less for the day, but it's better than earning 100% of nothing at all, right?

 

[GaiBaan]

I agree with you Jodi, I don't think I'd feel comfortable letting my little girl walk around by herself.

Tough situation....

By the way Jodi, any chance you'd come up to Westchester to visit?

 

[QTswer]

Jodi:

Have you also considered the Y? as in YM(C/H)A for those narrow minded pervos on this board . They have diverse and reasonably priced afterschool programs for K-12 that extend well into the evening PM hours for those unfortunate parents that need to work late.

 

[Omar]

I don't have any experience with them but perhaps this might help:

Boys and Girls Club of America
http://www.bgca.org/

 

[kittyfreek]

hmm... I don't know how old your little one is but I be worry so much as the city does have a lot of weird and at times evil perople...

Perhaps you might want to consider enroll her in afterschool tutor or activities she's interested in? Just a thought...

 

[adypers]

What an excellent idea but I did that last Friday and the entire time I was so concerned and scared and nervous I couldnt enjoy my work as I usually do. Who sends their kid out alone so they can work? I cant make a habit of that as I love her way too much and something could happen to her out there alone... there are predators everywhere in this city looking for young beautiful girls who are alone. Id rather not make the rent than put her at risk. You are a smart guy though!
Oh and just cancelled on the 1:30 guy...again. Im very lucky he is such a sweetheart.

 

[xbeztuhliddiqiemp]

... give her some money and send her to the movies ....

 

[Anna C]

Sorry I havent written about it yet. Have a terrible headache right now. Things are proving too tooooooo difficult not having secure childcare for now.
I have an appt today at 12:00 pm, one at 130 and one at 5. I was jumping for joy that Im actually going to be able to make the rent ON TIME lol and now the kid just calls and says, "We get out of school at 12:30 pm today".
Omg how do I call my 1:30 who has tried NUMEROUS times to see me the last few weeks and tell him I cant do 130?
Instant headache.
Turns out though that the guy from yesterday ...well Im not the only one who had a problem with him. I talked to a couple of girls from the boards and apparently he is a problem for many and it wasnt just me.
Ill write later about it! Have to figure out right now what the heck im going to do and only have 25 minutes to do so.

 

[jaraAbassygab]

Did someone felt asleep during the session?

Admittedly, I've 'felt' asleep in many MPs mainly due to the language barrier, the dim lights and the muzak player they loop in the massage rooms...until the flip . For the record, if we did not pleasantly converse during our session, I probably would have started snoring and likely leave drool strains on her table as I was in such a relaxed state from her hands.

 

[Binny]

Did someone felt asleep during the session?

 

[ItsPossibleButNotLogical]

Why should it be any different for a provider?
They are entitled to have "bad" sessions.
I'm sure bad sessions are just as not-fun for them as it is for hobbyists.

This is a service business and as the saying goes,.. you can't please everyone, or expect to please everyone all of the time.

Amen to all the other times

 

[Pompal 09.]

Okay this is an interesting twist...a poor review from a provider's perspective. Now that you have piqued my interest and I'm sure of other members too, I am most curious on what made it a 'bad' session.