Review Daisy, Tina, Valerie and Yara - Club Dynasty Executive Summary

[soulsoffire]

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This reflects on a disappointing encounter with a massage therapist who used gloves without prior notice. They express frustration at the therapist's reluctance to accept apology gifts and a detailed letter. The writer laments the lack of communication and closure, feeling unfairly treated despite attempts to reconcile. They discuss the therapeutic process and express disappointment at being blocked. Ultimately, they decide to move on while taking life lessons from the experience, recognizing the therapist's refusal to forgive.

LIFE LESSONS + RESPONDING TO YALL

1. you probably shouldnt invest in people who don't reciprocate your energy/gifts etc AKA Invest in Reciprocity: Relationships, whether personal or professional, should ideally be built on mutual respect and reciprocity. If someone doesn't reciprocate your efforts or energy, it might be a sign that they're not worth investing more of yourself into.
2. if someone doesnt give you their real name or # , then say bye bye to a real friendship or relationship and even if they give their # it could be just to make them seem like a friend so you tip more , and when they quit their job they are gone. AKA
Authenticity Matters: Genuine connections require honesty and openness. If someone is not forthcoming with basic information like their real name or contact details, it's a red flag for the authenticity of the relationship. True friendships and relationships are built on trust and transparency.
3. . like you said a lesson on like watching what you post , and not assuming that a post on a forum will get like 0 views --Be Mindful of Online Presence/Activity What you post online can have real-world consequences. It's essential to be cautious about what you share, as it may impact your reputation or even lead to unexpected outcomes.
4. Also gotta work on my patience.
Practice Patience: Patience is a virtue, especially when dealing with challenging situations or difficult people. Learning to remain calm and composed in the face of adversity can help navigate through life's ups and downs more effectively.
5. Despite thoughtful gifts, money, apology flowers, letter, some people dont give second chances ..Acceptance of Limits Despite your best efforts, not everyone will be willing to give second chances. It's important to recognize and accept that not all relationships or situations can be salvaged, despite sincere apologies or efforts to make amends.
6. we will all INEVITABLY get screwed over in life.. either by a MP, or a crazy circumstance. Life's Inevitable Challenges:.Life is full of unpredictable circumstances, and sometimes, despite our best intentions, we may encounter situations where we feel taken advantage of or betrayed. Learning to navigate these challenges with resilience and grace is an essential part of personal growth.

and @iforgotwhatitwas what a clown comment u had bro.. comparing an online review posted to beating a wife.. . the rest was reasonable and facts.

This seems a bit too much, feels like a talk with cd management might get things sorted out properly. @Piperdawn

Lol I tried they offered me the $150 apology money back.. I refused that as like I said its not exactly about the money, and if they trying to pay me off it gotta at least include another $180 + some extra for the hell they caused of their own management delays for weeks..plus for the last sesion where Daisy was rude and passive aggresive in .. . A conflict resolution from a simple chat with especially Daisy or CD management probably could have eased things up and I wouldnt have to drop essays replying to all your comments.

. Lol pretty sure for a good $1K or $2K she would pretend that review never happened lets be fr. Then again she was really stubborn in not accepting my apology gifts etc.. and the apology letter was long af , well firstly , it included some appreciations, and basically some kind words of saying goodbye & sorry & best of luck at your future!, I knew she would poke holes in everything I said so I had to make it detailed. It was long for that reason because of the way she was so stubborn in the session, not becasuse I'm all into her or something...
I only give women a chance and if they don't match my energy, they are gone from that list..

As for how this should and could have been quickly resolved
I just wish she told me why she blocked me or w/e and gave me a fair shot before she cut me off rather then ghosting, lol definitely respectful of the regulars albeit one who posted a bad review but took it down also so.. , and that she gave me a proper chance to apologize face-to-face & make her understand why I was so upset & got carried away instead of a 3 minute speed run. I was mad and lost it , but I was also really wronged as already explained why like 20 times by now. I also lowkey didn't think this site was that active that I'd even get a response tbh so it felt like harmless at the time .. boy was I wrong.
Also I'm not a brokie guys... like I said this isnt about the money... read between the lines jeez. Look at the options i presented, only 1 of them had money which is basically compensation for the horrible last session with Daisy.

She tried to just play dumb until I called her out for acting different, then she said she heard from a client about my review.. and said I went behind her back lol...so because she kept playing dumb before that.. I only had like 3 minutes to apologize, well she was on vacation for months and I didnt exactly have a commnuication line but I had planned to tell her about my review thing that I deleted and regretted as soon as my anger from being finesssed wore down(was waiting till the end so to not ruin my mood and get too deep). Sure you may feel "betrayed" with a poor review behind your back.. then again you werent transparent about the gloves so you arent exactly perfect yourself , and if CD has just responded promptly I would have quickly calmed down after a $80 credit or whatever and not resorted to posting... instead they dragged it on day after day.. giving me the go around for like a good 2 weeks.

like I said I wanted to post in a community of people who might get the gloves from hell thing, which clearly if you saw the responses ,, some people do.. like the person who said I should get a refund.

Repeat after me . When you pay for a service and the person is nice to you it's just a sales tactic. Doesn't mean she loves you or even likes you. You are a client and that is her job.

Bet I'll repeat it. When you pay for a service and the person is nice to you it's just a sales tactic. Doesn't mean she loves you or even likes you. You are a client and that is her job.
Oh yeah and calling me her valentine and agreeing to go for dinner with me, and saying she wishes I got her a valentines gift.. well the last part I get it lol ms materialistic ... but the 2nd one.. like nah.. thats wild. LIke sure calling every client her valentine sure I get it... but spending personal time outside would allude to friendship or something that or it was a pity dinner in thanks for the gifts I got her .

Agreed, people can lie and manipulate for sure. To finesse gifts, or extra tips etc. But I will say there are definitely some exceptions to that.. like a friendship or relationship could be possible in more rare case . YMMV I guess...but you are right a like 95-99% chance they are taking advantage of you or I guess sales tactic as you put it.

"Dude's writing essays about an erotic massage hoe that broke his heart. Sad " Love how you referred to her as a .. , although I'll admit I still have some grains of respect for her as a person despite her ghosting. if only I had that mentality I wouldnt have fallen down this dark path . Sadly I tried to treat her like a human being, instead of a toy, and got burned for it and treated like a disposable ATM. but w/e

Lol therapy nah... its just weird , I would think she would do a few other sessions and slowly warm back up after the bad review, which was caused by her own shady actions. Like I thought after everything we would trascend an online review thing that was taken down and just venting anger for a bit.. admiteddly should have been in a private journal, but I wanted empathy from anyone to know I wasnt crazy to hate the gloves before I removed the post.

Like sure I made one post saying shes used glove it was my worst massage experience ever.. ok a bit of an exaggeration if I did say that... there are definitely way worse toxic/selfish people, she was pretty nice.

As for ruining her business I seriously doubt people gonna not see her, and if they do at least they warned about the oh taking your tips, and then by the way surprise gloves from hell, which may or may not exist anymore..

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Anyways this was fun , I am going to put in my retirement from this site soon .
in Conclusion
I will be using this as preworkout for my gym on my muscle up journey...with 36 checkins in the month of April.. yes more then the # of days in the month.. (I'm pretty hardcore so hired a personal trainer for good measure)
So sad that Daisy was too stubborn to have a simple conversation and work things out, and rather assume I'm always gonna betray.. pretty sure her existing "trust issues" refused to let her give a 2nd chance.. which so be it.. but outside of the CD it wouldve been a whole new vibe.. one where no one is doing a job etc..
I will be moving on to other MP attendants (that or saving a shit ton of money) either way , there were a ton of great times with Daisy.. unfortunate that CD ban me, and Daisy blocked me... but hey if Daisy wants to cry and not accept one of the best apologies of all time, well so be it. Go look at the letter as weird or "tryhard" if you want and good luck finding a client who gives heartfelt gifts and a generous token of appreciation on christmas... , but she was the one who kept questioning everything I said, so I laid it all out on the table in hopes to patch things up.

 

[Mav]

Bro. She is a sex worker. She was never your gf or going to be that.

This is not the right hobby for you.