debacle at Star with Sandra et al.

[superman2990]

You set a good example of respect towards your fellow massageplanet.netites. I take it I should take some lessons from you on class and maturity, so that I can call these girls a-holes instead?

 

[Ben H]

I never thought i would say this
Sheik I agree with you
This bonehead does not deserve an appointment
SDC

 

[Reverse_Thread_Wing_Nut]

EXACTLY!!! Star doesn't need this whiner.

I also agree with Sheik.

 

[Ashera]

Do you deserve any respect?!

 

[geyamala ?????? ??? ????]

Scrooge,

Smarten up before you make yourself into a bigger idiot than you are. Theres been times when I've gone to a mp, booked a room with one lady and at the last minute asked if another one could join us. Others have done this as well.

It was a freaking suggestion as to what may have happened but as it turns out it appears that maybe she didnt want to see you after meeting you because she figured out you were an asshole.

Maybe it wasnt even 9:30 when you walked it, maybe it was 9:45, theres so many freaking variables here. But one thing is glaringly obvious, you show no respect towards the ladies and have not done so since your first post in this thread. Now, I've been calling you an idiot and its making you mad, good, now maybe you will understand why the ladies didnt want to see you the other night.

Grow the fuck up and get a life.

 

[Ziona]

A few weeks ago I booked an appt @ Star with Shanti, and upon my arrival she met me at the door to explain very nicely that she was double booked. Shanti offered me two choices:

1.) a session with Serena who was available immediately.

2.) come back in 30 minutes.

She was sincere in her apology, and I decided to wait the 30 minutes at Chapters drinking a latte and reading magazines.

Unfortunately these things happen Scrooge and we simply have to shrug our shoulders....

The only thing I'll say RESPECTFULLY is in your anger you've come across like a misogynist. Who knows what REALLY happened after you walked down the stairs, but the ladies I've met at the BChain are neither stupid nor airheads...

Perhaps you'll feel better tomorrow.

 

[ksr]

I would like to know, what is it that your trying accomplish by starting this thread...Did you have hidden agenda to prevent people from seeing Sandra because she rejected you. Also kinda hard to really take your side in this matter specially since you initially made an error with the title decable at Lexa...I personally don't blame the girls for wanting to leave at 10pm, if they were lying about the appointment so what? would you have taking it better if they told you it's past certain time and we're no longer taking customers. They do watch the camera when you first walk in, they know what type of customer you are...

Last week I had appointment with Felicity but I was their early and was ready for my massage when the person that booked the appointment at that time showed up. I didn't whine and bitch just went to another available Mpa

 

[mollzzzz]

To be honest I have had many occasions at the Bchain that many would say were not favourable. Sometimes I make a quick mention in a review and oft times not.

Here is the list:

1) Made an appt in the early afternoon on a Sunday for later in the evening at Lexa. When I arrived the place had closed early. I waited for 20 minutes and called the number from outside. This was early on and later I found out that when the Red Neon sign is off they are closed.

2) Being double booked on a couple of occasions.

3) Drove to Star for an appointment with Victoria and found out that my appt did not even exist and she was booked for the rest of her shift.

4) Same MPA that I booked at Star and Lexa and she went home early, I had called less than an hour before and made the appointment. Two different occasions, two different MP, same MPA and the same outcome.

5) I arrived early for an appt and was told the wait was 5-10 minutes, it ended up being 20 minutes past my appointment time.

And the finale ...

6) Arrived at 9:20pm at Star and waited in that room. A couple of minutes later I hear more than 2 voices outside that door clear as day instructing the receptionist to send me off so that they can go home early. The kicker is that 5 minutes earlier I called and the receptionist said that all the MPA on shift were all available now, I was parked with a clear view of the door and decided to finish my smoke before I headed in. When she opened the door to peak her head out to tell me they were closed, I knew the other MPAs were hiding in the background, when she finished I told her that next time the other ladies shouldn't speak as loud as I could hear everything they said. I raised my voice when I said it and you could hear some shuffling and muffled voices from the "hidden" ones. The look on the receptionists face was worth it.


On average this happens each month based on 4 to 8 visits monthly. Not a stellar track record to say the least and Star is in the lead when it comes to blunders. I am not taking sides, all I am saying is that every MP has their fair share of blunders. I keep going back because quite frankly overall the service that the MPAs provide is very good. Who said hobbying was easy?

On another note what RS said was very important and it is important to see the womans point of view and she has done a great job.

With that, almost every bad experience that I have had I have mentioned to the ladies there in a civilized manner, some of these have been relayed to the owner and I am sure that actions were taken. I am pretty sure that the owner and some of the Bgirls have read this thread and will probably get down to the bottom of this sooner or later.

VBB

 

[Starla_C]

A ladie's perspective is often much needed in these forums. Nicely put!

 

[Brendan]

I'm pretty much in agreement with Rockyroad. Guaranteed, she was originally
turned down at the door for her session with Scrooge, and was somewhat hurt
and offended that your first look at her triggered a "not interested" decision. In an
mpa's mind it goes something like this, "I'm not good enough for him" or "He finds
me unattractive". Then on second thought after leaving, the client decides to stay
with you. Any interest the mpa had at giving you a nice sensual pleasing session is
pretty much shot to hell, because she is now feeling like a "last minute desperate
option that "will have to do" for the client. An mpa wants her client to be enthralled by her looks, not a "she will have to do for now" mpa. Other mpa's may not care
if you came back 5 min. to close after rejection, they will take your money regardless.
Some mpa's are a little more sensitive and the work is more of a "I'm flattered you find me attractive at first sight and are dying to see me." All women love to
feel like they are the exact girl the client was looking for and he wouldn't hesitate
a second to see her.

I'm sure if this would have happened in the a.m. or early p.m the situation might
have been different. But by the end of the day, after god knows how many
bad, horrible, or difficult sessions that she has had, another additional negative
feeling about herself, may not be what she needs at the end of her day.
Technically, all mpa's are sub-contractors and self-employed operators. This is
not a communist country, and every employee in any job has the right to turn-down
any contract. However, because this industry has no regulations, rights, or
protection, often an mpa who continually turns down clients is eventually fired.
Many manicurists also turn down clients who's feet or hands, or general
disposition is rude. Sometimes, money has nothing to do with it.

As clients, maybe it is not always understood how that can feel. It's like the last
kid picked for the baseball team, or, the date that was to start at 7:00 who cancelled
then called back after considering his options, and called back to set up the date
again. I know this is a service industry, but no matter what, it is first and foremost,
for many mpa's and sp's, a matter of being treated with respect. The ball is in
their court, and you are a wise hobbier, with the best sessions when you learn
that this essential service provider relationship should be followed. And yes, alot
of it also has to do with the income factor. When you don't make alot of money
in a service industry (any kind), you go above and beyond, even when you don't want
to. But the service provider who is raking in the dough, need not see people who
give them a feelings of inadequacy. They may not be the have the best business sense, but it's their life and their business. And hats off to the providers (any industry)
who give each and every customer (whether they like them or not) the exact same
service to every client. That's a strong business sense and a route to success!

I just thought I would shed some light on what might have happened, but we
really don't know all the details, so speculation in this case, is futile. But from
behind the doors of many of the exact same situations, I have found this to be
the reason, after a client walks away and then returns. When there is no mgmt.
around, there is nobody to police the situation, but again, I feel an mpa should
have the right to decline sessions for good reason: ie: previous bad experience with
the same client, or a dangerous last session, or a client that has stalking qualities etc..
I can understand both sides, but I don't think "the change the mind client" should
qualify for this treatment. But again, we only know 1 side of the story. It could
of been totally different than what we are being told.

 

[JUAN FRAN$$$]

Red Stiletto your post should be a Sticky. I've always thought it ironic that guys want the personal, human touch yet often complain that the provider's not as predictably reliable as a machine. This is not an industry, it's a craft, and with the desired accomplishments we must expect some less-desireable personal behaviours. And we'll politely and considerately review them, of course.

 

[ctopher]

RS: This was partly the reason I decided to wait for Shanti rather than go with Serena in the scenario I mentioned earlier. I've had fun sessions with Serena, but was in the mood to see Shanti and didn't want Serena to feel like a "second choice."

To be honest I really do NOT like going to a spa if two girls I've repeated with are working the same shift.

I guess it's a "respect" thing on my part

 

[Aisling M]

You might as well of said that these girls were assholes. My problem with your review was not that you were pissed off that you were turned away, it was how angry and violent your post was. Repeating over and over again how stupid they were and how they were boneheads and airheads is concerning. Guys like you who get pleasure out of calling women names make me sick, how do we know that one day you aren't going to get really mad and instead of verbally abusing a woman you aren't going to hit her or rape her? I don't know how you have the balls to defend yourself. You need some anger management classes asap.

 

[shadow78]

Nice comments that you just deleted Scrooge. You've just proven to me that I was right all along about you.

 

[GNET Uk - GNETUK.CO.NR]

You can't be serious...or you seriously need a psychiatrist/psychologist yourself.

Fabricating such extreme accusations from evidence that just does not meet even the most meagre equivalence is sad. None of these things have happened..these are your fantasies RR. The "violence", "pleasure in calling women names", "hit her", "rape her", are products of your mind. No one put them there - these are the play things of your thoughts.

For you 2 plus 2 seems to equal 87. That's fine. That's how you work.
Just don't kid yourself about where they come from. And don't project them on to someone else.

 

[Markus B]

There is no hidden agenda. The purpose of this post is to let everyone know that a problem, namely rejection of clients between 9 and 10pm, still exists at this chain, and more importantly, it provides management to rectify this problem. Other MPAs at this chain do this, and it so happens that Sandra was the guilty one this time.

If I really wanted to prevent people from seeing Sandra, I would have been the first one to post a (fake) bad review of her.

This is a very different, yet an additional, problem from a more common problem, namely the Bgirls taking walk-ins when someone else had already called ahead to book an appointment (and/or the appointment shows up 5 minutes late).

In this thread, I have not asked for any compensation/apology. To her credit, Ginger has voluntarily proposed a solution. Thanks for that, Ginger.

 

[Pompal 09.]

Those of you who keep making up possible detailed scenarios when you were not there and they contradict the eyewitness - that's called fantasy.

Those of you who keep making up possible detailed scenarios and believe them,when you were not there and they contradict the eyewitness, that's called delusional.

If anyone had one shred of evidence to contradict Scrooge, I have not read it. There is not a single person who was there who had offered any further evidence. If anyone (read vocal opponents) had any evidence we would have heard it by now rather than the loopy hissy fits in this thread.

The only people who are vehemently opposed are those who were not there, but somehow have no trouble literally inventing fictitious events to contradict Scrooge. And they get angry when their fantasies are not accepted as fact by the eyewitness. I guess that's the downside of a fragile ego.

Scrooge's post is most welcome. He was irritated and pissed off. For those of you who don't like it. Get over it.

VBB pretty well confirmed the problem as well.

 

[nerdcore]

Well, thank you, Gryfin - who almost literally read my mind and re-posted the thread I deleted.

So there you go, RR. Going by your analogy, you calling another massageplanet.netite an asshole properly makes you a murderer. So, you, too, have an anger management problem. Speak for yourself, you hypocrite.

 

[Daisy Blaahhh]

Talk about overreacting. The guy is calling them boneheads because he feels he was ignored and treated poorly by these girls. People often call others names when they get upset.

Rockyroad, have you ever gotten angry at someone and called them a name? Does that mean you take pleasure in calling people names and are likely one day to get really mad and rape them? Do you see how idiotic that sounds?

Scrooge, stick with spa's like IT and HFH.

PS Just to piss people off, here's a link to HFH and IT.

www.4u2touch.com
www.handsfromheaven.ca

 

[CUPiiD97]

I'm wondering why this thread hasn't been closed yet.

Sheik........pour qoi, mon ami?