Hi Jayne,
When i came round after my op they asked me how my pain was and they kept giving me painkillers until it had settled (This was in the recovery room,they didn't take me back to the ward until they knew i was ok and comfortable).
Then they attached me to a PCA (patient controlled analgesia) machine, which released morphine when i pressed the button.
They did take this away the next day, but they should make sure your pain is adequately controlled.
Once you are up and about with the physio, that should help as well. Its good to get moving as soon as possible.
I was discharged after 3 days, once the physio and nurses are happy that you are able to get around, they will let you go home.
As Tracey said, her hospital didn't provide corsets but mine did and i had to wear it for only 2 weeks, then I began physio.
Its nearly 3 months since i had my op, and see my physio every 3 weeks.
Keeping up with the stretches should help prevent stiffness, stiffness hurts!
I know its hard with you having a small child that wants picking up.
My daughter is nearly 8 and its been hard for her, as we couldn't go out and do anything fun. But we were able to have a cuddle in bed or on the sofa, reading books.
As Claire mentioned, your back will let you know what you can and can't do. Its important to take things slow, i am aware how frustrating it is, i got so annoyed with not being able to do anything.
Now I can do stuff, but still do it slower. I think the reason i am laid up again is because i have been overdoing it.
I was back into my normal stuff like work, seeing friends, driving everywhere, larking about in the snow and ignored the aches....my back decided i wasn't allowed to ignore it any more!
I am sure i will be back on my feet soon, and have definitely learnt my lesson...Normality will come soon, but i have to wait...i am impatient!!
It is perfectly normal to be scared Jayne, even though my last op was my 2nd and had been through it before, i was still as scared as the first time.
But i don't regret my operation, i was stuck on crutches and i am sure the hospital were getting fed up with seeing my ugly mug all the time!
I didn't need my crutches after my op, just did what Claire said, take it slow, use bannisters etc to support you getting around.
Hope this helps hun, and if you still have questions, then do ask, its better than being worried about stuff cos there is likely to be lots of people on here that can answer them