Alistair,
Thanks for the positive thoughts. I think you are right about the 10 days - today I woke up much better with almost no pain. I was able to walk this morning for a good 1/2 hour (the kids think it's hilarious that Daddy is walking round and round the house - they even joined in for a bit). I thank sat with them for another 1/2 hour which feels like a major leap forward to me. I am knackered now but full of optimism that it won't be too long before I try walking to my local shops an back.
Did your mate get a good deal in Poland ? I did come across some sites that offered overseas options when I was checking prices but really didn't fancy the traveling.
Melza,
It does sound from what everyone has said that a 4" scar means Open Discectomy and a 1" - 2" is most likely a Microdiscectomy. As Alistair said, it makes sense that the initial recovery will be longer the more muscle that they had to displace to get at the disc. I wasn't given an option of micro and I don't know if that was due to the bulge size, but I was told after the op that he removed some big bits of disc (along with some of the soft 'crab meat' stuff in between the vertebra - apologies if that too much info for anyone!).
Thanks for your words about paying for it myself. It does seem too be really wrong that you have to wait in pain for services we all pay for. I really had no idea that was possible with the NHS until now. I am up for a protest march - maybe later in the year though
Ali,
I was a keen mountain biker last year, despite the pain. I have had conflicting information from physios as to when I can get back on my bike. One even said I should keep off it as it's no good for my back ! I can't wait to try it. I am glad to hear you didn't suffer as as result of your ride.
I don't know about everyone else but the things I have found hardest are -
The emotional few days after the op.
Immediately after the op you are still high on the pain killers and the fact that the pain in your leg has gone. The 'high' drops off at the same time as the painkillers go so days 2-5 post op were really emotional for me. I can't remember feeling that low ever before. I look back now and realise it was a combination of the down of stopping months of Tramadol use, the op drugs leaving my system plus that helplessness feeling of being 'trapped' in hospital. I think if I had thought about this more before hand I might have been better prepared.
Perching to go to the loo.
It's impossible, even with the toilet extension. You just end up sitting anyhow. Why don't they just tell you to sit ?
Constipation.
On top of everything you go through after the op, all of the drugs that help with pain seem to stop you going - forever ! While in hospital they gave me Senakot in large doses everyday. It didn't work. In the end I had to have a suppository which was awful but did the trick for a bit - enough to let me go home anyhow. At home I have found that the only thing that works is Movicol.
Thanks again to everyone here - I feel better equipped to cope with the following months knowing that there will be good and bad times, but overall I should keep improving.
Hegs.