Chat Favorite way to finish?

[UsefulIdiot]

The short answer, porn. Mimicking something you see that you can't normally do in a regular relationship.

How times have changed! At your age (I am over 60) it was a big deal if a girlfriend would give head without being persuaded (or begged).

 

[Samurai_Hai]

If it's semi-legit, definitely DFK while foreplaying but what really gets me if she spits on my cock! That just sets another level for me!

 

[Kawailuvr]

Cimsw
Russian between massive naturals

 

[xtc27]

Let me push back a little - why does it look hot? What psychology is in play? Is this about the thrill of doing something that is taboo?

... it' s funny, bcuz its not something I seek out... I visited one gal, I knew did BBBJ CIM... I had DM confirmation f/ another dude... but she didn't wanna do it w me (I guess it was a reg service only), so we went 4 CBJ a bit, then we finished by HJ w my dick just beneath her chin, while she started chanting "Cum in my mouth" ... And I ended up blasting some on her face just beside her lip! I can still see it in my mind... & she had no clue!

... benefits of being a quiet cummer...

She asks, did u cum? And I wanted to say, lick yer lip & u tell me!

And... that was unexpectedly hot! I kinda got part of my wish despite her...

Power trip? I dunno. It was, just instantly-w/o-thinking-hot ... like smudged makeup ≠ sexy, but smudged makeup after we've been making out IS sexy... like she's actually offering her precious face 4 my pleasure...

 

[kittyhound69]

Did she lick her lip Ann say.. yum pineapple smoothie.

 

[HandyAndy]

Let me push back a little - why does it look hot? What psychology is in play? Is this about the thrill of doing something that is taboo?

Primarily, It’s a sub-conscious safe play. (I’ve looked this up with a PHD psychologist FWB). Psychologically the lips of the mouth represent the pussy lips, which is why women want lipstick and lip filler to suggest their ‘lips’ are aroused in order to appear attractive. Men in turn like to cum on a girls face because of the proximity to the lips, but keep the safety of not getting the girl pregnant. They see the cum and they see the lips and become psychologically satisfied, The domination element comes from the fact that the girl has to agree (or submit) to doing it so for guys that like that dynamic it lets them feel in control whereas, and for the guys that like a connection with the girl (GFE feels) having the girl take a facial is like she’s pleasing her partner and reinforcing the relationship. Guys that like girls who take it with a smile would likely be the guys that like DFK and GFE.

 

[UsefulIdiot]

Primarily, It’s a sub-conscious safe play. (I’ve looked this up with a PHD psychologist FWB). Psychologically the lips of the mouth represent the pussy lips, which is why women want lipstick and lip filler to suggest their ‘lips’ are aroused in order to appear attractive. Men in turn like to cum on a girls face because of the proximity to the lips, but keep the safety of not getting the girl pregnant. They see the cum and they see the lips and become psychologically satisfied, The domination element comes from the fact that the girl has to agree (or submit) to doing it so for guys that like that dynamic it lets them feel in control whereas, and for the guys that like a connection with the girl (GFE feels) having the girl take a facial is like she’s pleasing her partner and reinforcing the relationship. Guys that like girls who take it with a smile would likely be the guys that like DFK and GFE.

Good answer. I guess anal and oral sex are effective forms of birth control. I wonder if when civilizations have been filthy (like Europe after the Romans left) if oral sex was practiced? Or maybe even in those circumstances SWs cleaned the johns first.

 

[bobbieround]

Obvious most enjoyable is cip

2nd is italian

 

[HandyAndy]

Good answer. I guess anal and oral sex are effective forms of birth control. I wonder if when civilizations have been filthy (like Europe after the Romans left) if oral sex was practiced? Or maybe even in those circumstances SWs cleaned the johns first.

Tons of murals in ancient Europe of Romans, Greeks, Macedonians, getting jiggy wit it in all sorts of ways. Ancient Japanese artwork called Shunga as well has oral, gay, group sex and toys

 

[UsefulIdiot]

Tons of murals in ancient Europe of Romans, Greeks, Macedonians, getting jiggy wit it in all sorts of ways. Ancient Japanese artwork called Shunga as well has oral, gay, group sex and toys

The Romans and Japanese were/are clean. Europeans were covered in shit in the Middle Ages.

 

[xtc27]

Did she lick her lip Ann say.. yum pineapple smoothie.

… she was pretty non-challant… Im shur she’s tasted sperm b4

 

[MustardAndKetchup]

Make the girl cum first and can’t handle more while I finish.

 

[DSL luver]

Natural, hands down.
I could go on and on about the benefits of Natural for Russian, but I'll keep it short and say that I generally find manmades a turn-off.

Agree.

Manmades feel slightly unreal, like it’s a doll, not a woman.

 

[Kawailuvr]

The Romans and Japanese were/are clean. Europeans were covered in shit in the Middle Ages.

I’m sorry we have forgotten that time is Europe ?

 

[DSL luver]

Good answer. I guess anal and oral sex are effective forms of birth control. I wonder if when civilizations have been filthy (like Europe after the Romans left) if oral sex was practiced? Or maybe even in those circumstances SWs cleaned the johns first.

I doubt there was ever any period in any place in history that oral sex wasnt practiced somewhat.

Christians seemed to have considered it sodomy, so perhpas some good Christians missed out.

Ironically, more recent Christians do oral so they can be technically virgins.

i say technically. If a cheerleader sucks off the whole football team, she’s perhaps a virgin but hardly virginal.

 

[Petron-us]

I think a follow-up question is how often we experience our favorite finish? How frequently does it all align?

Yes, great point.

If I got to finish my favourite way all the time, I would likely get spoiled and need something else.

But, when I did have girlfriends who luved giving head and did it frequently, I never got bored with cumming in their mouths. Never!

I had to be sure to alternate with fucking though or they started to get annoyed.

 

[Phil Rockford]

No judgement here but I do not understand why some like COF. Is it the raw feeling of power? Marking territory? Negation of intimacy? Resentment that the SW is only with you because you pay her?

I really get where you are coming from here. (Pun intended also )

My dick is already in the perfect place, a nice warm mouth; why should I leave?

If face painting is needed, she can spit it out & I can do it then!

 

[DSL luver]

Yes, great point.

If I got to finish my favourite way all the time, I would likely get spoiled and need something else.

But, when I did have girlfriends who luved giving head and did it frequently, I never got bored with cumming in their mouths. Never!

I had to be sure to alternate with fucking though or they started to get annoyed.

One of my buddies used to date this girl who only gave bbbjs with finish in mouth of course, and never fucked.

He was slightly annoyed by this, but I told him give her to me! No probs.

 

[Petron-us]

One of my buddies used to date this girl who only gave bbbjs with finish in mouth of course, and never fucked.

He was slightly annoyed by this, but I told him give her to me! No probs.

That girl was a hidden unappreciated gem!

 

[UsefulIdiot]

One of my buddies used to date this girl who only gave bbbjs with finish in mouth of course, and never fucked.

He was slightly annoyed by this, but I told him give her to me! No probs.

When you cannot have something that you want, you end up wanting it even more. If a woman only did anal it would be great for a while, but then you would start really craving that pussy or mouth.