First a real life situation that happened with a patient of mine. Arranged marriage first time sex, both girl and boy are virgins age girl 24 yrs boy 25 yrs both from mehsana gujarat. Situation very funny. Please control your laughs.Boy is research scientist.
Step 1. Instead of putting his babu rao gaitonde in chuteswari maiya the boy first puts amul butter in the girl's garneswari maiya. Babu rao Gaitonde not going inside. After few minutes boy puts full bottle of glycerin on the girl's garneswari maiya, out of frustration. Gaitonde still not going inside. Subsequently the boy puts navratan thanda thanda hair oil and after few minutes finally puts Vaseline mixed with vicks vaporub inside the girl's garneswari maiya. Gaitonde refused to go inside that night. The girl smilingly asks him in gujarati kya experiment research kar rahe ho bhelpuri paanipuri kyun bana rahein ho. Mera garneswari maaiya thanda thanda ho raha hain aur jal bhi raha hain. Jo karna hain jaldi karo sona nahin hain kya. Gaitonde dead out of frustration. First time sex completely unsuccessful. This happens due to excitement like a hungry lion in front of food, not able to decide and confused- Kahan se shuru karoon kya shuru karo or pehle kya khaoon. Hope this situation does not happen with anyone including all virgins.
Tips for anal sex.
1.Always place a pillow on the stomach of the girl and get her on a higher position so that her hips and back allow for easy and deep penetration in lubricated anal area. There are lots of sex pillows and anal sex pillows available online and in the markets at roadside at colaba, earlier at VT, Fort, DN road area now due to metro work these shops are not regular. Avoid made in china pillows as sometimes after inflating air full pressure it can burst during the act.
2.Always use coconut oil as lubricant. The next best is almond oil, aloe vera or baby oil. But coconut oil stays longer for 2-3 hrs and does not dry easily unlike the other 3 products. Never use glycerin, navratan thanda thanda oil or menthol base such as vicks vaporub as lubricant. First time second time if you are not successful keep trying. First and foremost most girls are scared of anal sex because of pain and blood. It is basically there in the mind.
3.Always ask the girl to release her bowels before anal sex. She may fart in hindi paad nikal sakti hain during the act and your gaitonde will go to sleep mode if she keeps farting continuously. This is absolutely natural and mental.
4.If you are using condoms make sure not to use coconut oil and almond oil as lubricant with latex condom as the condom will tend to break especially ultra thin variety latex condoms.
5.Muslim girls especially Bangladeshis Bengali Muslims and Nigerians Africans girls are experts in anal. First time anal experience with them is awesome for anyone as they know exactly and very flexible also with gaitonde these girls orgasm fast while doing anal unlike Indian girls.
6.Make the girl comfortable by talking, open communication as if she is your own girlfriend for few hours in imagination. The fears have to be removed. Be slow this is not some race or marathon.
7. Hygiene is a must or else poop may come out. That is the reason inserting fingers in anus before the main act is necessary to see the level of preparedness and pain the girl faces. Rest is patience.