Looking for an advice to get my head straight)

[Kazanova]

Before I go with my rant I just want to thank you all for keeping this forum informative.

I never had any issues with girls and consider myself pretty good looking. A thought of going to a massage place to get "some some" never occurred to me until 3 months ago. I stumbled on article where this guy talks about his addiction with these semi legit massage places. ( we all had that experience where you google one thing and then 20 minutes later you are reading a completely different topic lol) So I had some cash to burn and no girlfriend at that time-and I thought to myself why not? I dont do anything fun anyways, might as well try something exciting. I was thinking I would probably not like it anyways, well at a least I hoped. So I googled review for massage places and found this forum and picked the most well reviewed girl from premier. (I am not gonna go in to names).

First session-Pure Spa-I was super impressed with interior and just overall feel. You do feel like you are in the movies and something exciting is going to happen. Couple girls came out and introduced them self and I thought to myself they are not that good looking Whatever 150$ is paid lets just give it a try............) This is cute Asian girl takes me to a room and tells me to take a shower. So I took a shower and then this stunning girl comes in and I am like wow didnt expect that. After that, my brain just completely turned off and all I remember leaving with a huge smile 250$ poorer. Never experienced anything like that in my life just pure fucking energy).


I dont know if you guys enjoy it but I really hate all these small talks they try to make. Like I know thats a just a business transaction (at least I am trying to think rationally) and I really hate all the fakeness that I guess you technically pay for. So after that session I had another session and another session and another session with the same girl. Everything is fine until I had session with her recently and that day I had a date with a hot girl probably better looking and didnt suck as many dicks. The date was going very well until she told me that she can clearly tell that I am not single and that I am thinking about someone. She was right that the whole night I kept thinking about her and what would be like to spend time with her in the real world))I couldnt even explain to her that I am single. LOL whats wrong with me .... have any of you experienced that ? I guess all these small talks got in to my head. Why do I want to see her and dont even care about sex anymore just want to see her lol So I guess I just want to hear from you -that all these girls are very professional and are very good at playing with your feelings (GF experience)...but other than that they are cold stone B.......usiness people. I guess my question should I stop seeing her? That feeling of being with her will never be satisfied…that’s how they hook you? Also how often do you see regulars I know it depends and what you can afford but still whats the magic number a month?

Just want to hear some advice from professionals who have been in the game for some time.

 

[LostInnocence]

If hobbying is screwing with you rlife and you can quit, then you should quit.

If you enjoy it, then keep it up.

Don't let it hurt other relationships.

 

[Hangdai]

Hard to separate sex and feelings? Welcome to the club.

I've always said the hobby is truly as addictive as gambling or drugs.

My fav is visited weekly, but I counter the feelings by seeing others as well, and just try to live the fantasy hh or a hour at a time, and tell yourself that the ladies are only in it for the money, making you want them more is just part of their job.

 

[Kazanova]

If hobbying is screwing with you rlife and you can quit, then you should quit.

If you enjoy it, then keep it up.

Don't let it hurt other relationships.

Have you ever got a number from MP how do you approach that if she does?

 

[Kazanova]

Hard to separate sex and feelings? Welcome to the club.

I've always said the hobby is truly as addictive as gambling or drugs.

My fav is visited weekly, but I counter the feelings by seeing others as well, and just try to live the fantasy hh or a hour at a time, and tell yourself that the ladies are only in it for the money, making you want them more is just part of their job.

I feel like this hobby is really motivating me to do better in life. Yes its not that easy to keep it separate. I just feel like ok next time its gonna suck and I will bored...but its just keeps getting better and better.

 

[Hangdai]

Have you ever got a number from MP how do you approach that if she does?

Of course, all the smart ladies know it's just another hook in your mouth.

I like it really for the convienence of booking a session without wasting time calling the spa (they always tell you she's there) or just showing up.

 

[Kazanova]

Of course, all the smart ladies know it's just another hook in your mouth.

I like it really for the convienence of booking a session without wasting time calling the spa (they always tell you she's there) or just showing up.

lol like you know every guy thinks he is special so its like all these tricks really work )))

 

[Ursus]

You have to take this hobby for what it is - a way to have fun by the hour with the currency issued by the Canadian govt. You see, you go to work and you earn some money. Then, you save up a little bit and you go visit these girls who do things for you MUCH FASTER and LESS EXPENSIVELY than a girlfriend or wife would do. A wife will cost you north of $1,000 per sexual encounter. A girlfriend will be north of $400 per encounter and a sex-worker will cost you about $250 per hour. The wife will drive you crazy and take half your property (or more). The girlfriend will leave you and waste the money you once had during your time together. The sex worker will just do a straight, fair exchange at $250 per hour.

These sex workers don't like you or me, they don't like sexy. They like fast, easy money. That's it.

I know none of the girls I see give 2 shits about me. I don't care about them either. It is just entertainment to amuse myself and for them, to line their pockets with trip and clothing money.

Take me for example, I asked Daniella to have a child with me. She hasn't given me an answer yet. If she says yes, great. If she refuses, no loss as her and I never knew each other before a few months ago anyways. Nothing changes win or lose. Just take it easy and have fun.

 

[newtothis82]

Before I go with my rant I just want to thank you all for keeping this forum informative.

I never had any issues with girls and consider myself pretty good looking. A thought of going to a massage place to get "some some" never occurred to me until 3 months ago. I stumbled on article where this guy talks about his addiction with these semi legit massage places. ( we all had that experience where you google one thing and then 20 minutes later you are reading a completely different topic lol) So I had some cash to burn and no girlfriend at that time-and I thought to myself why not? I dont do anything fun anyways, might as well try something exciting. I was thinking I would probably not like it anyways, well at a least I hoped. So I googled review for massage places and found this forum and picked the most well reviewed girl from premier. (I am not gonna go in to names).

First session-Pure Spa-I was super impressed with interior and just overall feel. You do feel like you are in the movies and something exciting is going to happen. Couple girls came out and introduced them self and I thought to myself they are not that good looking Whatever 150$ is paid lets just give it a try............) This is cute Asian girl takes me to a room and tells me to take a shower. So I took a shower and then this stunning girl comes in and I am like wow didnt expect that. After that, my brain just completely turned off and all I remember leaving with a huge smile 250$ poorer. Never experienced anything like that in my life just pure fucking energy).


I dont know if you guys enjoy it but I really hate all these small talks they try to make. Like I know thats a just a business transaction (at least I am trying to think rationally) and I really hate all the fakeness that I guess you technically pay for. So after that session I had another session and another session and another session with the same girl. Everything is fine until I had session with her recently and that day I had a date with a hot girl probably better looking and didnt suck as many dicks. The date was going very well until she told me that she can clearly tell that I am not single and that I am thinking about someone. She was right that the whole night I kept thinking about her and what would be like to spend time with her in the real world))I couldnt even explain to her that I am single. LOL whats wrong with me .... have any of you experienced that ? I guess all these small talks got in to my head. Why do I want to see her and dont even care about sex anymore just want to see her lol So I guess I just want to hear from you -that all these girls are very professional and are very good at playing with your feelings (GF experience)...but other than that they are cold stone B.......usiness people. I guess my question should I stop seeing her? That feeling of being with her will never be satisfied…that’s how they hook you? Also how often do you see regulars I know it depends and what you can afford but still whats the magic number a month?

Just want to hear some advice from professionals who have been in the game for some time.

Yeah stop seeing her bro, once you can't separate the business and personal aspect it's better to move on. Some of the stars at pure are so good they will leaving u thinking about them all the time. But always remember the best ones know how to make everyone feel the way you do. It's all good...and if it's fucken with personal life...for sure stop

 

[imthedude]

Immediate advice: stop seeing things girl around least for awhile. Long term: have a rotation, don't just see the same girl over and over. And find some more ways to fill your time; don't let the hobby become the driving force in your life.

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[topo112]

These girls are so sweet and sexy, they make us feel especial, and that's what we want, but sometimes we forget it's just entertainment. I don't blame the girls. Some of them are irreplaceable, even if we find similar girls. They are like mermaids calling sailors to drown them with their sweet calls( like in those greek tales ), is up to us to keep it real. Three of them wanted me to be their "boyfriend " but I knew they were dating other guys so I didn't fall for it, but somehow still hurts a bit. Ha ha! Just don't see the same girl over and over again cause they take you for granted and you will be the one giving them a massage ha ha! Always treat them well so they miss you more than you miss them, in case you stop seeing them.

 

[Kazanova]

Immediate advice: stop seeing things girl around least for awhile. Long term: have a rotation, don't just see the same girl over and over. And find some more ways to fill your time; don't let the hobby become the driving force in your life.

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Thanks for the advice sounds you have some experience with this.

 

[LostInnocence]

Have you ever got a number from MP how do you approach that if she does?

Are you asking me, since you quoted my post?

Yes, two MPAs gave me their number and I texted both for a while. But the drama was too much with one, and then the second one asked me to buy her gifts.

Money...

 

[Freshy1]

Are you asking me, since you quoted my post?

Yes, two MPAs gave me their number and I texted both for a while. But the drama was too much with one, and then the second one asked me to buy her gifts.

Money...

Did the mp a's tell you Their real names when they gave you the numbers?

 

[Mulva]

The best advice I can give you is do not come on here looking for advice in this area.
If I may say something though you are much better off finding a loving, caring woman in the real world, which do exist, than trying to escape whatever ails you through immediate gratification.
I fell for a working gal once, but fortunately I quickly saw her for what she was and what she actually had to offer. Which wasn't much.


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[LostInnocence]

Did the mp a's tell you Their real names when they gave you the numbers?

One of them did. One did not.

 

[Jmac]

I just keep everything basic. I don't really engage in conversation while gets rubbed but I do respond in short, just to avoid awkward drops of silence. But if and usually when I keep quiet during the rub (I think) the mpa sees I'm easygoing.

The first girl I ever repeated with however, had nothing to do with her talking to me during our first session. It was the level of service she provided and the fact she let it be understood she aims to please at her job with all her clients. Spoke openly of her other types of clients and busy times.

Typically, I wouldn't believe a mpa would share info on other clients to keep the feeling of being special with the client at the moment. (Like my mindset in my first few sessions of being the only appointment of her day).

As for frequency, I get paid every 2 weeks so sometimes I go a week on then 2 off. So in 2 months 4-6 times. I was tempted to do a two a day a couple of times but these Premier Spa girls left me more than satisfied.

 

[Freshy1]

One of them did. One did not.

Which one? The drama queen or the gift digger?

 

[LostInnocence]

Which one? The drama queen or the gift digger?

Drama. I had absolutely my best solo session ever with her. We just hit it off, two people who honestly liked each other. I didn't want to leave; she didn't want me to leave,so I didn't leave for a while. I went back a few days later to drop off a thank you card and she was there, and she came out and we sat and talked for a half an hour or longer on the couch out front. That's when she gave me her number. I don't know where she is right now; I suppose I could text her and ask. She's no longer working there.

These pictures are absolutely not photoshopped. I can't understand how her body has not been affected by gravity.

 

[Freshy1]

Drama. I had absolutely my best solo session ever with her. We just hit it off, two people who honestly liked each other. I didn't want to leave; she didn't want me to leave,so I didn't leave for a while. I went back a few days later to drop off a thank you card and she was there, and she came out and we sat and talked for a half an hour or longer on the couch out front. That's when she gave me her number. I don't know where she is right now; I suppose I could text her and ask. She's no longer working there.
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These pictures are absolutely not photoshopped. I can't understand how her body has not been affected by gravity.

Wow.amazing