Chat Loose lips (No, not those one's!)

[Rubmegood]

As in "Loose lips sink ships" (Yeah, I know, I'm showing my age... ) Rather than hijacking another thread recently (Taz) that touched on discretion I thought it warranted it's own thread. A lot of guys complain that there is reluctance of the more experienced guys on the forum to share with "noobs". And occasionally we get a direct request from a provider to NOT share information about them or share reviews and, to a certain extent I can understand that. On the other hand they need to understand that the business they are in almost makes the request impossible to comply.

In the incidence of Taz, I think being an independent provider who makes no pretense of being "legit", that she can expect not to have reviews. Still, as hobbyists, out of respect we can still show some discretion when it comes to nitty-gritty details that could cause the provider grief with future clients.

What brought me to this thread is that, when it comes to semi-legit spas, it is another issue. A semi-legit that I frequent- names are not important here- I got the message (in so many words) that the management seems to have read reviews on this forum and have "laid down the law", so to speak, and told the girls what kind of services were allowed and which were not. The girls can choose to ignore the rules (at risk of losing their jobs) or do as they are told. My girl recently chose to ignore one rule out of trust for me. But rest assured, I will be choosing the wording of any further reviews of this place very carefully and being very picky about what I share with whom through PM's.

 

[dicktracy3003]

This isn't a difficult issue. If a girl or business asks for no reviews, don't write a review. If a girl or business reaches out and asks you to take a review down, take it down. Other than that, go wild. If you like to write a well mannered sophisticated review, do that. If you want to write a steamy letter to Penthouse, do that.

All the white knights jumping to defend people who have not indicated they want to be defended is retarded.

 

[quesoblanconorte]

I try to err on the side of caution, and don’t share specifics unless I know that they are okay with it. And yes….that includes via DM.