I hope I don't bore you guys, but wanted to share some experience:
Marriage is a very complex thing. Complexities are from different angles and aspects of life. In this forum, we are discussing about sex so will focus mostly on it.
- Never marry a girl thinking from sex point of view. Even if you have a beauty queen, if she does not like you or respect you, she is crap, of no use to you. Love is the most important thing in a marriage.
- Marriage is not about body, it's 90 % about emotional, love and tuning with each other. Even if you get a naked miss India, or world, you will get bored of having sex with her after few times. After all it's a human body made up of flesh and bones, just like your own body.
- Thrill is only about seeing a new female body. When you see it and use it to your heart's content, it no longer remains exciting. So, married people also need to monger, to keep the fun alive.
- Only emotional touch can attract you to a woman after you had sex multiple times with her. Why has nature given us emotions and not to animals? Our kids take too much time to get independent so only love and emotion can keep a man and woman together so that they can raise kids. Animals' kids get independent soon after coming out of womb/egg or ASAP.
- I believe all women are beautiful creations of nature, so one should appreciate all and if possible love all of them
- Mostly, women lose interest in sex earlier than men. After few years of marriage, I am 100% sure any wife will make excuses to reduce frequency of sex. Then frequency will get so bad that you will be surprised. This gives us one good excuse to monger
- As long as I don't get emotionally involved with a girl or have regular sex with her, I don't think I am cheating with my wife. We go out to get something if it is not provided at home. Don't you go to market to buy milk if you don't have cow in your house? If your wife does not provide you well, you are justified to go out.
- Sex is brain tonic and it is required to face this diffciult world, remain sane and earn money for the family and your beloved wife.
- Don't be afraid of marriage. It's a good thing.
Golden words for you: Don't marry a girl whom you love. Marry a girl who loves you!