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[Pompal 09.]

Liked that J video (1st one in your signature line). I prefer creation to evolution cause I think it explains men better. God said "be fruitful and multiply" when he created us. He didn't just tell us it is a good idea. He planted in our brain "we must try to multiply" and it doesn't matter what language you speak. If he's a male - he want's (needs) his guys to swim somewhere. At least in his head they are heading in the right direction.

You just look at the newspapers. If he lives as a celibate and doesn't at least try to procreate, then he will some day get into some wierd shit with kids or sheep or somebody else who is also into wierd shit. Look at the wierdest sexual perverts. If they were married, they sure wern't getting *any* at home. Rapists, if they were getting laid regularly, they wouldn't be so angry. I bet if they closed down MPs there would be 10 times the number of sexual crimes. Jacking off just isn't the same. If it were, MPs would be out of business.
Men need to have either their hand or their lips wrapped around a nipple when at the point of climax, Otherwise, why upgrade at an MP. A smart MPA would wait until her customer was breathing hard, then tell her customer that she REALLY needs her nipples sucked but she also needs an extra $100 and if the man had it he would pay. If he didn't have it he would offer her ANYTHING (the last subway token that he needs to get home), for that opportunity. (sorry guys) As an experiment try:
He's breathing hard and then tell him that you are depressed because you feel that your breasts are too small and you love it when a man's tongue carresses them but you never get to experience this because your breasts are so small. Then proceed to show your breasts (if he doesn't seem interested - he's pretending - have him touch your nipples and then stop him).
He will fork over all of the money in his wallet if you just keep telling him about how much your nipples need his lips and you should stop stroking him or else it will all be over because you know where these decisions are being made? - on second thought ... don't

fip

 

[theologynut]

Ya we all know that we run a risk. Each sector has different risks. Dancers deal with pimps and drunks. MPA's deal with agressiveness and cum shots. SP's deal with FS and BJ's. We all deal with mileage pushers. We all run risks of STD's. Its a matter of thinking it through. And being smart and creative...I can fake a pussyslide like a champ. Running NO risk to me or the client...

...as I always say...its the art of almost!

 

[Dr pushpinder k]

Once a woman said "no" when I asked her to swallow. She explained that she might have a baby in her tummy if she swallowed. She must have thought I'd go for that story - do you think she could honestly have thought that?

On a different note, I found myself attracted to Lynn (PM me,your mailbox is full) and that other MPA with a "squared" in her name. When the lights are on I'm strictly a T&A man but when the lights go out (dim) or when I'm in a daze (happens sometimes) I find myself attracted to a woman's mind. Why is that?

One comment about customers (like me) asking for FS. FS like most sexual acts is in the mind. Little fip wants to give his swimmers a head-start. Why is that so wierd? Give the guy the "my poor lonely nipples need you to suck them" story and he'll quickly forget FS and be shooting great big globs all the way to the mirror on the wall. His eyes will glaze over, in his mind he will have just impregnated you. You could ask him if he liked f*cking you and he'd ask you if "it was as good for you as it was for him." Then he'll put on his clothes, guaranteed he won't remember (or care) If you use lots of oil he will think you were REALLY WET. That's the way that men were made.

fip

 

[Megan M]

Of course they have! Im not stupid. But I have control over what I DO and DONT DO...and I have the right to refuse service to anyone that I know is a health risk to me!! If you are a walking STD-risk...DONT GRACE MY TABLE!

An educated MPA (or client) should know their risks, and be selective...we all have done a thing or 2 that wasnt the smartest at the time...in MP's or anywhere, but its about responsibility!! Especially if you have someone at home in your bed, whose health you are accountable for as well.

 

[Pompal 09.]

LOL...I missed this one. Too funny.

 

[Kerensa]

Thank you for your response. I gather that you are a newbie to the bizz. viral shedding is passed on by a simple bodyslide. Consult with your family physician. Niativity is dangerous in our business.

 

[drluiiz]

And they all over pay you, book you into the pent house, buy champagne and strawberries, take you to the ascott races, and then propose ... it must be a bitch having to reject all those handsome rich guys just so you can keep working

 

[Emy]

That's why I laugh when a guy insists "but I'm clean!" after I refuse risky services.

I don't know where you've been sir... I just know what risks I'm not willing to take.

... and if I said "Sure! Let's do it!"... wouldn't that freak you out a bit?
To be really crude here: I jerk men off for a living. You don't know where I've been either. If I accept your request, I've likely accepted many many more.....

 

[Nomadic Exile]

Interesting thread with lots of great posts.

I only started visiting MPs this past year, and frankly the only one I've been to is SRM, but I have been there a few times now.

I have not been to an SP, and frankly I don't have a desire to either.

I know what is offered at an MP and that is what I'm interested in. It is the whole experience, I always go with the BS and the NR portion is one of my favourite parts...although frankly it is hard to separate out a "favourite" part since the whole thing is great!

The point is that I am there because: I want the physical contact; I don't want to feel like I'm being hussled (like at a SC); I want the massage (hard to believe eh?); I also want to do the NR portion because I love the female body, it is a thing of beauty; I enjoy chatting with the providor, and while I have been a repeat customer I don't for a second begin to think that I have a "relationship"; I love the tease and of course I'm there for the finish.

If I was craving the services of an SP, that is where I would go...there is a reason why the two are different. Frankly I don't want many of the SP services going on at the MP where I am because the idea of LE busting in because they have complaints/concerns is not high on my list of things that I'd like to experience.

Lynn and MPAsquared, I think you've both done a great job addressing the concerns an MP provider would have, and although I have no idea who you are or where you work, your clients/customers should consider themselves lucky.

I know it sounds trite to say, but MP providors are people too! Sometimes there may be a little bit of fantasy or a connection, but at the end of the hour you're going home and they're going to their next customer or to their own home / family.

I can understand where Mongrel4u is coming from, it's natural to want to go to that next step, or to feel that you're getting special treatment, we all feel that way.

Perhaps I'm not as aggressive as others, but when I'm at an SC or at an MP, I don't push the limits, not because I don't want to...believe me, I want to...but I don't want to push the girl into something that she is uncomfortable with.

Also for the record, I agree a nice 50 min bs experience is much more satsifying than a quick FS. Once more, while we enter a bit of a fantasy world while we're in an SC or a MP, the unfortunate reality is health risks are always present. I'm single and frankly I wouldn't want to have to deal with a STI / STD, I can only imagine the issues that would raise if you were in a relationship....

Anyway, great thread, I've enjoyed reading all the posts, hope I didn't step on anyone's toes with this post.

 

[Julie]

Read the argument and thought I'd step in. To those who are against PS, I agree with you 100%. Why would anyone want that kind of risk? Shit, if you really gotta do 'what you gotta do' at least have the decency, and sense, to get a condom. This is at very least. Shit, I've been to MPs and been offered 'The Full Monty' but have declined. There's an incall section with many great ideas of where this could be found, so why not go that route where everything is known, agreed upon, and 'more-legal'. It's like going to the GAP looking for Guess jeans and being disappointed when they say that it's unavailable. There's my little rant. ARGH!

 

[HairLossSolutions]

I have never heard such crazy talk on massageplanet.net before...This is gonna be an interesting reply...


Dude...what version of CNN are you watching? So all preists are pedo's?...(wait, bad example)...Lots of guys that dont get any at home dont hurt kids, pets, or women! Who says rapists rape cuz they are angry?? Do you know that first hand? I could enlighten you. I dont think crime would increase directly cuz MP's closed...SC's and SP's would just be busier.




Goodness!! What the hell kind of suggestion and theory is that?! Sure shoving something lickable in his face is hot...but what, is he gonna die if you dont shove a nipple, specifically, into his mouth? And what kind of twisted manipulative gold-digging is that?? robbing a man blind with nipples dangled infront of his face? What a silly load of junk that whole "lick my lonely nipples" shit!!

Im generally nice on here, but WHOA!

 

[Boyoboy0]

Hardley. So dont pick bodyslides. In fact, why get a massage at all? You're better off (and safer) with a body wrap at a girly day spa! ENJOY!

 

[Annorax]

Sure you have control over your session...but by making the following statement, what you are saying is if you have ever done the following dont come see you....and what a person has done, you have no control over.

 

[forumAdmin]

I am not into marriage. I must say, i do get alot of perks!

 

[Jae]

Some guys that post on this forum are stupid. I don't know why someone would ask for a p*ssyslide with all of the possible health risks invovled. I think that a MPA should have the right to refuse a client if there are health risks invovled - its the same way a client can refuse to go a certain mpa and pick a mpa of their choice.

 

[melaine010903]

The only thing i'm amazed at is that no matter how liberal the sexual services they receive, hobbyists always seem to be trying to stretch things that extra notch...

(1) MP = HJ, that's all it was supposed to be in the beginning, an RMT or pretty girl giving you a rubdown.

Then things had to progress to Topless, Nude, Nude Reverse, Body Slides, Hot Tub sessions, and now you even need to try and get BJs, DATY, digits, LFK/DFK, etc...

(2) It used to be that SPs = CFS and CBJ. Then you had girls offering "GFE", then came "PSE", and once again the envelope just keeps getting pushed forward trying to go that extra mile.

It seems like no matter what sexual venue people pursue, there will always be those that try to go that extra distance... For what reason, I have no fucking idea....

Lost touch with reality, or just trying to fill some kind of void I guess.

My philosophy?: Just be glad for whatever the girl gives you so long as she fulfills her basic duties. I've had humdrum sessions, bad ones, and ones that ran way beyond my wildest expectations. But through them all, I let the LADY set the tone, and just went with the flow. Perhaps those of you seeking that extra bang for your buck should take that simple counsel to heart... You may be surprised where it leads you.

Food for thought.

 

[danielle Z]

Thank you for the weak response. I worked in massage for the last few years on and off. I am a woman and enjoy going to spas for a girle day so to speak. You seem like a sweet girl, but your posts seem too emotionally charged; taking away the real effect of your true point of view.