I am amazed at how many spa girls are in fact married with kids at home.
I ask them about them giving HJs (and even body slides) out and pretty much all honestly say they don't look at it like cheating, they look at it 100% as a job. Their mind doesn't differentiate a HJ or BS from someone serving a guest their meal at a restaurant. I was taken back by their view on it. I was like but this is sexual, I got the "what you mean, it's just massaging a body part, just like how I massaged someone's shoulders".
Very interesting mindset. Only one girl I rebutted with "what if your husband was fingering women as part of his job to close the deal at his car dealership"...then she hit me with the "oh, well I can see why that's not right"