Still seeing escorts and massage girls

[squirrelhunter1]

Ok guys honest opinions, guy I have been seeing has been in past with escorts and massage girls. He says he hasnt been with any since beginning of this year when we started seeing one another..however he is still chatting on social media with them . Let me tell you sex is off the charts with him, I've done everything he wants and more. I'm confident about those needs between us being met but a little unnerving this continual chat and the odd texts I've seen. So in your hobbyist opinions do you think he would still be getting together with escorts and massage girls regardless of our sexual relationship.

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[squirrelhunter1]

Ok guys honest opinions, guy I have been seeing has been in past with escorts and massage girls. He says he hasnt been with any since beginning of this year when we started seeing one another..however he is still chatting on social media with them . Let me tell you sex is off the charts with him, I've done everything he wants and more. I'm confident about those needs between us being met but a little unnerving this continual chat and the odd texts I've seen. So in your hobbyist opinions do you think he would still be getting together with escorts and massage girls regardless of our sexual relationship.

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Sorry I should qualify we have been seeing each other since beginning of 2018 not just this year

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[2016aldoraine]

Ok guys honest opinions, guy I have been seeing has been in past with escorts and massage girls. He says he hasnt been with any since beginning of this year when we started seeing one another..however he is still chatting on social media with them . Let me tell you sex is off the charts with him, I've done everything he wants and more. I'm confident about those needs between us being met but a little unnerving this continual chat and the odd texts I've seen. So in your hobbyist opinions do you think he would still be getting together with escorts and massage girls regardless of our sexual relationship.

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Without knowing him personally that's really hard to answer. Some guys I would say they are definitely still seeing them and other guys I could say they likely aren't seeing them. If he's open and honest about seeing them in the past why do you question if he's not being open and honest about seeing them now?

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[squirrelhunter1]

Without knowing him personally that's really hard to answer. Some guys I would say they are definitely still seeing them and other guys I could say they likely aren't seeing them. If he's open and honest about seeing them in the past why do you question if he's not being open and honest about seeing them now?

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Because hes chatting with them. Why chat with them and text if not interested in getting together with them. I'm absolutely fine with past but not ok with him seeing them while we are together. So I doubt he is going to admit being with any while we have been together.

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[2016aldoraine]

Because hes chatting with them. Why chat with them and text if not interested in getting together with them. I'm absolutely fine with past but not ok with him seeing them while we are together. So I doubt he is going to admit being with any while we have been together.

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Is he open about chatting with them?

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[squirrelhunter1]

Is he open about chatting with them?

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He said he does after I found a text from one of them..also his twitter is full of chat with them as I recently asked to see his twitter account. He said he doesnt see the harm in chat...well I think it's wrong but I understand the need for men visually to follow escorts and massage girls like that and I'm ok with the looking at pictures etc..just the communication bugs me.

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[squirrelhunter1]

Is he open about chatting with them?

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And seriously I'm not a prude. Far from it. I'm trying to reconcile us and that part of his life and the need for escorts or massage...I get that being with them provides a different experience..but if he is with these girls on occasion cause i think it's just occasionally not frequent then why bother having me in his life right?

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[T Bickle]

He sounds like a bit of a ‘collector’. For him, the thrill is not so much the act, but the flirting ritual surrounding it. He not only derives pleasure from the sex, but also from the knowledge that the girls seem to like him too. Some talk with him to try to get him back in (money), while others might actually enjoy him and his company. In any case, one woman will never entirely take over his focus.

 

[squirrelhunter1]

He sounds like a bit of a ‘collector’. For him, the thrill is not so much the act, but the flirting ritual surrounding it. He not only derives pleasure from the sex, but also from the knowledge that the girls seem to like him too. Some talk with him to try to get him back in (money), while others might actually enjoy him and his company. In any case, one woman will never entirely take over his focus.

You mean me being the one woman?

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[MPfun]

Ok guys honest opinions, guy I have been seeing has been in past with escorts and massage girls. He says he hasnt been with any since beginning of this year when we started seeing one another..however he is still chatting on social media with them . Let me tell you sex is off the charts with him, I've done everything he wants and more. I'm confident about those needs between us being met but a little unnerving this continual chat and the odd texts I've seen. So in your hobbyist opinions do you think he would still be getting together with escorts and massage girls regardless of our sexual relationship.

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Mom? Is that you?

 

[T Bickle]

You mean me being the one woman?

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Correct. He will never focus entirely on one woman. In reality, he probably cares about many different women and for many different reasons. Women from his past and present. At some time, he has probably experienced significant loss or losses relating to his personal relationships. This is his way of protecting himself emotionally against another potential loss.

 

[squirrelhunter1]

Mom? Is that you?

Lol. Hardly. But funny . I ain't nobodies mama haha

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[tomnguyen504]

Imo, you should move on. You derseve better. Guys like that will keep cheating on you

 

[Greenberg]

Hey, Squirrel, you say that sex off the charts. I would like to suggest that something is amiss in the sex department. Perhaps, he’s getting something from the other ladies and not from you. He might not want to talk about to save you from any hurt feelings. Have a chat with him, saying that it’s a learning conversation without judgment. Certainly, continual contact with other women does not make a stable relationship. Good luck! Best.

 

[ChubbyGuy]

Agree with the others stating to "move on" if he doesn't stop. Definitely not healthy if you two are in a relationship.

 

[snoopdoggie]

Ok guys honest opinions, guy I have been seeing has been in past with escorts and massage girls. He says he hasnt been with any since beginning of this year when we started seeing one another..however he is still chatting on social media with them . Let me tell you sex is off the charts with him, I've done everything he wants and more. I'm confident about those needs between us being met but a little unnerving this continual chat and the odd texts I've seen. So in your hobbyist opinions do you think he would still be getting together with escorts and massage girls regardless of our sexual relationship.

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At first I didn't really know if you are a man or a woman. You should have said which gender you are right from the beginning. Nowadays, anything is possible, especially with the crazy changes in some laws, in the last little while.

 

[squirrelhunter1]

At first I didn't really know if you are a man or a woman. You should have said which gender you are right from the beginning. Nowadays, anything is possible, especially with the crazy changes in some laws, in the last little while.

Sorry I am a woman but Male or female context still same if with others either male or female. Thankyou in future I will try to be more specific

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[Mulva]

Likely not the best place looking for advice lol.
My experience with women has been if something feels amiss it usually is.


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[henricas]

Ok guys honest opinions, guy I have been seeing has been in past with escorts and massage girls. He says he hasnt been with any since beginning of this year when we started seeing one another..however he is still chatting on social media with them . Let me tell you sex is off the charts with him, I've done everything he wants and more. I'm confident about those needs between us being met but a little unnerving this continual chat and the odd texts I've seen. So in your hobbyist opinions do you think he would still be getting together with escorts and massage girls regardless of our sexual relationship.

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As per my many years of experience; If he is still "Chatting" with MPs and Escorts; he gets from them something he is NOT getting from you (Maybe is just conversation)
However MPs and escorts are in this game for one thing and one thing only $$$$$.
In this game , Time is money. If they are replying and chatting is because they are getting $$$ in return, without $$$$, they might answer once or twice but as soon as they see they can't get $$$$$ they'll stop chatting and forget about the dude.

you said this still going on for 15 months ??? hmmmm.

Now let's pretend they are not getting $$$ and is emotional. Number one trade of Escorts and most MP is "No feelings", that's the only way they can survive on this business. Soooo ? is your dude the superman of sensitivity ??? thus all this MPs and escorts look up to him ??? I think not.

I think he still sexually active with the GRLS. Now ask your-self where does that leave you ???

 

[c1000]

So in your hobbyist opinions do you think he would still be getting together with escorts and massage girls regardless of our sexual relationship.

Absolutely. As soon as your back is turned, he'll be back.

You will have to accept it or leave him.