Not too long ago I had went gotten myself tested at least 4x because of anxiety. I went to a Doctor's walk in clinic, Scarborough Clinic, Lawrence Clinic and even my GP. I asked about HIV transmission and all of them stated that unless you are doing something really dangerous and risky such as drugs, sharing needles, anal sex and doing some blood pact with your whore hunter brothers then the risk is high, very very high. They all stated unless the person you had sex with vagina or anal has a cut and vice versa and is infected then you are at risk. In regards to kissing, they more concerned about gonorrea, chlamydia etc...Test came back, Negative. They did mention that spa's are low risk UNLESS you partake on the extras being offered.
Honestly, they all looked at me like I'm crazy but all of them didn't seem worried.