Why do you guys settle for this ..
Stop doing this bullshit
The minute the girl walks in..tell her I want ___________ . Are you good with that??
Negotiate from there based on your budget and what your willing to pay.
Never proceed if she tells you she doesn't do what your looking for. Your the one paying her money. Shes not doing you a favor.
If she declines to do what you want. Tell her go get someone else. Respectfully.. if shes not comfortable fine..but tell her let's stop now and go get someone else. Too many stories of guys proceeding with girls who clearly not there to please you.
I dont care how she feels , your paying her fucking rent, contributing to her lifestyle. You pay she performs. Dont let them con you into this bullshit . They will do minimal work if they can get away with it.. thats human nature.
When you go Timmy's and ask for a medium double double coffee and they give large black coffee do you just drive off ???. No you go back in and tell them that's not what I want and make them change it. Same concept ..
Stop accepting there bullshit - grow some hair on your balls . Place you order the minute she comes in..if she cant deliver on what you want
Change the girl..fuck her feelings